ደራሲ: ንፁህ ጋብቻ
ያሳለፈውን ወንድም ሙሀመድ ሙስጠፋን እናወራለን። 10 ንፁህ ጋብቻን ከመቀላቀልዎ በፊት ለዓመታት ፍለጋ. ልክ በኋላ 7 ቀናት, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!
This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!
*በመጫወት ላይ – Pure Matrimony Intro*
አሰላሙ አለይኩም, As a practicing Muslim, በመስመር ላይ ቀናተኛ የትዳር ጓደኛ ለማግኘት መሞከርን በተመለከተ ያለዎትን ስጋት ተረድቻለሁ እና በእውነቱ አይገርመኝም።, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, በችኮላ ታግ ውስጥ መርፌን ለማግኘት እንደ መሞከር ነው።….
አርፋ: አሰላሙ አለይኩም (wrb) and Welcome to the family matters show. እኔ ያንቺ አስተናጋጅ ነኝ Sis. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, ማሻ አላህ, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. ስለዚህ, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. ስለዚህ, ያለ ተጨማሪ ማድረግ, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, ስለዚህ, Br.Mustafa, እንደምን ነህ? አሰላሙ አለይኩም!
ብር. Mustafa: ዋ አላይኩም ሰላም(wrb). ዋልታ, I’m doing great! እንደምን ነህ?
አርፋ: በጣም ጥሩ! Really good to hear from you, ወንድም. ስለዚህ, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. ታውቃለህ, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.
ብር. Mustafa: ቀኝ! እንግዲህ, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.
አርፋ:እሺ, ማሻ አላህ!
ብር. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, ምንድን, you would call it an e-commerce company, ጨርሶ አልገባኝም።, that will be the best word.
አርፋ: ኦ, እሺ, በጣም ጥሩ!
ብር. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (ሲስ. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.
አርፋ: Oh.. Excellent.. ማሻ አላህ! You speak fluent Arabic then?
ብር. Mustafa: ዋልታ!
አርፋ: Very lucky, ማሻ አላህ! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, ማሻ አላህ, ስለዚህ, you know talking about your, በመሠረቱ, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.
ብር. Mustafa: እንግዲህ! በእውነቱ, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, ግን, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% ጥረት, like I was really searching.
አርፋ: Subhaanallah! ዋዉ! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, ማሻ አላህ. እና, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?
ብር. Mustafa: ቀኝ, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, ግን, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( ሲስ. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.
አርፋ: Not the right profiles in UAE?
ብር. Mustafa: አዎ. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, ታውቃለህ, to get married.
አርፋ: እሺ. አዎ. ወደ አንድ ነገር ተግባራዊ እርምጃዎችን ስለመውሰድ እና ችግሮች ካጋጠሙዎት ነው።, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, ግን, ታውቃለህ, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.
ብር. Mustafa:That’s right!
አርፋ: ቀኝ! እሺ. በጣም ጥሩ! ስለዚህ, you know what happened after that then?
ብር. Mustafa: እንግዲህ, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.
አርፋ: ኦ. ማሻ አላህ! Last Year?
ብር. Mustafa: አዎ! አዎ, ባለፈው ዓመት (ሲስ. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.
አርፋ: አዎ. ማሻ አላህ. አዎ. We are very clear on that.
ብር. Mustafa: በትክክል. ስለዚህ, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, ሃላል ነው።. This is what it is.
አርፋ: ዋልታ! ዋልታ!
ብር. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.
አርፋ: እሺ. አዎ. ማሻ አላህ (chuckles)
ብር. Mustafa: እንደ, I had to pay literally nothing at all. ስለዚህ, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, ማለቴ, it is I don’t know how people would take this…እንደ, the first question people would ask like……..
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በ ንፁህ ጋብቻ, እኛ እንረዳዋለን 50 ሰዎች በሳምንት ያገባሉ።!
ንፁህ ጋብቻ – የዓለማችን ትልቁ የጋብቻ አገልግሎት ሙስሊሞችን ለመለማመድ.
ማሻአላህ!!! it’s really inspirational for being patient….
Subhana ‘Allah Daz Masha’ALLAH
Masha’ALLAH
May Almighty Allah bless them….
Masha Allah beautiful story, May Allah bless their marriage and thank you purematremony for everything!
ማሻአላህ, inspirational story. May Allah bless him and his wife and grant them happiness in this life and the other.
ማሻአላህ, very inspiring story…may Allah bless them and thanks for getting this lesson …
good to so