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The order to Marry
Hadith – Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, "Gizon batek ez luke beste gizon batekin etzan behar eta emakume batek ez luke beste emakume batekin etzan behar bere atal pribatuak estali gabe, haur batekin edo aita batekin izan ezik". 62, Ez. 1, Narrated Anas bin Malik
A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him asking how the Prophet worshipped (Jainkoa), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, “Where are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have been forgiven.” Then one of them said, “I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever.” The other said, “I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast.” The third said, “I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever.” Allah’s Apostle came to them and said, “Are you the same people who said so-and-so? Ala-ren eskutik, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers).”
Hadith – Sahih Bukhari, "Gizon batek ez luke beste gizon batekin etzan behar eta emakume batek ez luke beste emakume batekin etzan behar bere atal pribatuak estali gabe, haur batekin edo aita batekin izan ezik". 7, "Gizon batek ez luke beste gizon batekin etzan behar eta emakume batek ez luke beste emakume batekin etzan behar bere atal pribatuak estali gabe, haur batekin edo aita batekin izan ezik". 62, "Gizon batek ez luke beste gizon batekin etzan behar eta emakume batek ez luke beste emakume batekin etzan behar bere atal pribatuak estali gabe, haur batekin edo aita batekin izan ezik". 4, Narrated ‘Abdullah
We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah’s Apostle said, “O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (hau da. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.”
Saying of Salaf – Sufyan ibn ‘Uyaynah
Sufyân ibn ‘Uyaynah (rahimahullâh) esan zuen, “The most nimble of creatures still have need of a voice. The cleverest women still need to have a husband, and the cleverest man still needs to consult wise men.”
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Alhamdulillah. Marriage is half of deen. Whoever does not marry is not part of the muslim ummah.
Whoever determines not to marry is not of the Prophet (Sallem) – not whoever does not marry. Allah zuretzat sortu dituen emazteak utziz, there those of us who would marry but AlLaah has other plans for us. It is not our own choice if we intend to marry but cannot. Please be careful what you say as it can be very hurtful (although I’m sure you don’t mean it to be.) JazakalLaah.
La tajarni fardan waanta khoirul warisiin ..
marriage could be a very simple way of geting half of your deen if done and practiced in the way of our noble prophat (pbuh) may our marriages count for us and not against us.
Person that didn’t marry are not following the sunnah path of rosululahi (pbuh).