Surviving Marriage
I had the blessing to meet a wise and profound teacher this past Ramadan. She gave a beautiful talk on “Surviving Marriage.” With her permission, I present to my lovely readers...
iWasewase "Vakamau"
The Love Letter
Many of us have taken someone in our lives for granted. Sometimes that person has caused us anguish, yet we underestimate how much we love them and how much we...
iTuvatuva ni Bula: Kilai iko, Kila na Tikina nei Watimu 2
In a two part series, Wise Wives Orange County was lucky to have Sr. Hosai Mojaddidi lead us in a discussion about temperaments and their effect on our relationships. Her talk was...
Learning To Co-Pilot
Every job has a boss, someone that makes the decisions and in our home our husband has the final say- he is in charge. May not be an easy pill...
iTuvatuva ni Bula: Know Yourself, Kila na Tikina nei Watimu 1
In a two part series, Wise Wives Orange County was lucky to have Sr. Hosai Mojaddidi lead us in a discussion about temperaments and their effect on our relationships. Her talk was...
The Goodbye Hug
Many of us only hear destructive marriage stories within the Muslim community. The constant flow of negative narratives can cause many to cringe and fear marriage. Ia,, the reality is...
Baqe ni Loloma
It’s almost Valentine’s Day. A day in Western culture when couples express their love for each other by going out to dinner, buying gifts, and saying nice words to each...
Bringing Love Into Marriage
Asalamu alaykum dear readers, I have written this article because I have come across many girl friends who have mentioned marital problems in one form or another. Many of those...
Cultural vs. Islamic Values- Si rau o Systi Musleh
Pure Matrimony ....Where Practice Makes Perfect Want mo vakayagataka na vidio oqo ena nomu mataveilawa, buloqu se ivola ni itukutuku? Sa rawa mo tabaka tale na itukutuku oqo ena gauna kece o o okata tiko kina..
Lesoni mai vei Laura – Wase 5
“Respect a man; he will do the more,” James Howell. Another major aspect of a healthy marriage is R-E-S-P-E-C-T. Let’s find out what it really means for a man according...
The Curved And Crooked Rib
Woman was made from the rib of man. She was not created from his head to top him, nor from his feet to be stepped upon. She was made from...
Why Am I Still Not Married? The Silver Lining of Being Single
I remember the chagrin and inner turmoil of being single and hopeful of marriage, back during my early twenties! Even after almost a decade of marriage, I still vividly remember...
Lesoni mai vei Laura – Wase 4
This entry is also going to be dedicated to the topic of control. Why do we do it? And how do we stop? Why you ask? Well there is only...
Maroroi ni Vakamau
Sometimes I feel overwhelmed by the demands of everyday life. Completing household chores, looking after my son, catering for my parents in law, my brothers in law and my husband...
Lesoni mai vei Laura – Wase 3
Moving on, I want to address a topic that is so critical to a happy and healthy marriage that I think it deserves an entire blog entry. Laura went on...
Na iWalewale ni Kena Liutaki na Matavuvale kei na Qarava – Si rau o Systi Musleh
Pure Matrimony ....Where Practice Makes Perfect Want mo vakayagataka na vidio oqo ena nomu mataveilawa, buloqu se ivola ni itukutuku? Sa rawa mo tabaka tale na itukutuku oqo ena gauna kece o o okata tiko kina..
5 Veigadivi Lasa kei na Nomuni Tikinisiga Yaga
To actually care about the relationship, pay attention to each other and to offer little gestures and gifts that show your love are some things couples should do to honor...
Vakananumi ni Nomu Loloma – Dau sakasaka Tawfique Tabuta
Pure Matrimony ....Where Practice Makes Perfect Want mo vakayagataka na vidio oqo ena nomu mataveilawa, buloqu se ivola ni itukutuku? Sa rawa mo tabaka tale na itukutuku oqo ena gauna kece o o okata tiko kina..
Married or not… you should read this.
When I got home that night my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I...
Lesoni mai vei Laura – Wase 2
Delving right in, Laura Doyle explained to us how important it is to receive. When was the last time you got a compliment from someone? Did it go a little...
