Wani lokaci yana da alama yana ɗauka har abada don nemo mutumin da ya dace…
Amma tsawon nawa ne ainihin ɗauka?
Mun yi ta jefa kuri'a a cikin al'ummarmu kuma muna murkushe lambobin kuma mun gano hakan it daukan kan matsakaici tsakanin 2-5 shekaru don nemo mutumin da ya dace!
A gaskiya, yawancin mutanen da suka fara neman mata a kan layi suna yin haka tare da babban bege na gano wani da sauri…
Suna tsammanin duk abin da ya ɗauki watanni biyu ne…
Amma lokacin da hakan bai faru da sauri kamar yadda suke fata ba, sun kasa hakura kuma su daina da wuri.
Kuma wannan yana daya daga cikin dalilan da yasa mutane basa samun nasara akan layi.
A Auren Tsabta, mun yi imanin cewa gano mutumin da ya dace ya cancanci jira!
Shi ne mafi mahimmancin shawarar rayuwar ku, and therefore it means taking your time to find the right person.
This will inevitably mean you WILL experience setbacks and rejection at some point.
Wani bangare ne na tsari!
Amma, kamar duk abin da ke da daraja a rayuwa, dole ne ku kasance a shirye don sanya kanku a waje, shan damar samun farin ciki…
Idan kuna son dainawa bayan ƴan watanni saboda kuna tunanin cewa ba za a taɓa samun mutumin da ya dace ba, to wannan ita ce muryar ku ta ciki tana aiki da ku, because Shaytaan doesn’t WANT you to find anyone.
Yana son ku zama bakin ciki, kadaici da damuwa.
To me ya kamata ku yi?
Da gaske, akwai 3 manyan abubuwan da kuke bukatar ku sani:
Na farko, yin hakuri, making dua and placing your trust in Allah is a HUGE step forward in helping you overcome any feelings of stress or worry you may have because you’re leaving it in Allah’s hands.
Na biyu, An riga an yanke shawarar abokin tarayya a gare ku – a wasu kalmomi, kadar ne lokacin da za ku hadu da wani.
Kuma a karshe, don kawai ka bar wa Allah ba yana nufin ka zauna a can kana fata wani ya zo tare ba.
You have to be ACTIVE in searching.
Abin sha'awa shine lokacin da mutane ke bincika layi, sukan yi bincike tsawon shekaru kafin su yanke shawarar abin ba ya faruwa.
Duk da haka, idan aka zo neman kan layi, Ba kasafai ake amfani da matakin irin wannan matakin ba.
Yawancin mutane suna ba shi 'yan watanni, kuma idan babu abin da ya faru, sun manta da dukan tsari kuma sun daina bincika kan layi gaba ɗaya.
Gaskiyar ita ce, idan ka daina nema, a ina hakan ya bar ku?
Remember going online using services likeAuren Tsabtais simply a means of helping you to connect with more of the RIGHT kind of people…
Kuma lokaci na gaba za ku ji kamar barin bincikenku akan layi, tuna yana iya ɗaukar wani abu tsakanin 2-5 shekaru don nemo 'daya'.
Don haka kada ku yanke ƙauna idan har yanzu ba ta faru a gare ku ba tukuna – kawai ba ku daɗe da nema ba!
Umma Jamal
Auren Tsabta – Taimakawa Musulmai Masu Aiki Tare Da Kasancewa Tare
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