Hakkoki da Ayyukan Ma'aurata

Hakki da nauyin da ke kan ma'aurata a Musulunci suna da yawa, kuma Allah SWT ne ya tsara su domin tabbatar da soyayya da jin kai a cikin aure. To ga wasu haqqoqi da haqqoqi na gama gari waxanda suka shafi miji da mata.

1) Ku kyautata wa junanku:

Me yasa aure ke lalacewa? Daya daga cikin dalilan shi ne, mun rasa fasahar kyautatawa da kula da magana da ayyukanmu. Wannan shi ne ainihin gaskiya na muhawarar da ke faruwa – sau da yawa maza da mata ba su da daɗi da maganganunsu ko halayensu.

A cikin ayyukan yau da kullun, idan ba ku kyautatawa juna, yaya kuke tsammanin soyayya ta girma?

Allah Ta'ala yana cewa, "… kuma ku yi tarayya da su cikin alheri." (An-Nisa': 19)

2) Domin girmama juna:

Annabi SAW ya kasance yana girmama duk wanda yake kusa da shi kuma ya kasance mai kula da matansa musamman. Haka abin yake ga matansa wadanda suma suka nuna kyakykyawan hali ga junansu da Annabi SAW.

Kuma ku sani cewa mutuntawa tana haɓaka mutuntawa - idan kun kasance masu raina juna, ba ka halitta soyayya da rahama, kana haifar da bacin rai da bacin rai!

3) Su kula da juna cikin lokuta masu kyau da marasa kyau:

Akwai abubuwa da yawa da suka faru a rayuwar Manzon Allah SAW inda ya kula da matansa ta kowace irin rashin lafiya kuma sun yi masa haka.. Daga sahabbai kuma, muna da abubuwa da yawa da za mu koya game da kula da juna.

Allah SWT bai ce ba:

“Kuma akwai daga cikin ayoyinSa, Lalle ne Ya halitta muku mãtan aure daga kanku, domin ku zauna da su a cikin natsuwa; Kuma Ya sanya soyayya da rahama a tsakãninku. Lalle a cikin wancan akwai ãyõyi ga waɗanda suke yin tunãni.” [Alqur'ani mai girma 30:21]

4) Domin kiyaye kanku da juna:

Me yasa jira har sai wani lokaci na musamman ya faru don yin ado? Ku yi wa juna haka kamar yadda wani sahabban Manzon Allah SAW ya fada:

Ibn Abbas (FITA) yace: ‘Ina son kawata kaina don matata, kamar yadda nake sonta don ta kawata min kanta.

5) Domin boye laifin juna!

Ku yarda ko a'a, daya daga cikin mafi kyamar ayyuka shine lokacin da kake tona asirin matarka ga wasu! Allah ya ji haushin wanda ya aikata haka kamar yadda ake nufin ku zama tufafi ga junanku…

“Su (matan ku) Tufafinka ne kuma kai tufa ce a gare su.” [Alqur'ani mai girma 2:187]

Wannan yana nufin ka ɓoye laifin matarka a gaban wasu ko kuma ka bar su a buɗe don ba'a!

Tabbas akwai sauran hanyoyin da za ku iya kyautata wa juna, amma insha Allahu wadannan su ne jagororin da ya kamata duk ma'aurata su bi domin samun gida mai dadi.

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