A ʻo Sātana ke kolu ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine

Ua pāpā ʻo Islam i ka hui pū ʻana o nā kāne a me nā wahine inā e alakaʻi ia i ka hoʻomāinoino a me nā pilina pili ʻole. Ma ke Komohana, He mea maʻamau ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoaaloha a i ʻole hoa kāne, ʻoiai ua pāpā ʻo Islam i kēia. aka, paipai ʻia e mare i ka wā e pale ai i nā pilikia.

Wahi a ke kāula SAW:

"ʻAʻohe kāne me ka wahine wale nō, akā ʻo ka shatan ke kolu o ka mea i hele mai." [Ua haʻi ʻia e Ahmad, al-Tirmidhi a me al-Hakim; ua helu ʻia ʻo Saheeh e al-Albaani ma Saheeh al-Jaami' (2546)

Ma mua o ka male ʻana, Hana ʻo Shaytaan i kāna mea maikaʻi loa e hana i nā kānaka ʻelua e hana hewa a loaʻa kahi pilina haram…

Akā ma hope o ka male ʻana, ʻO nā kānaka ʻelua a Sātana i hoʻāʻo nui ai e hoʻowalewale i ka hana ʻino i kēia manawa ke hoʻouka ʻia nei e ia no laila ua koi ʻia lākou e kaʻawale.! No ke aha mai? No ka mea, i ka manawa e mare ai, ua hala ke kane a me ka wahine i kekahi i kekahi.

A no ka mea, ua hala kekahi i kekahi, ʻO ia hoʻi, ua hāʻule ʻo Sātana i kāna pahuhopu e hana hewa i nā kānaka. A ma luna o kēia, ʻO Allah SWT i kāna aloha pau ʻole e uku i ke kāne a me ka wahine e hui pū ana!

ʻO kēia ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki ai i ka shaytaan i kēia manawa e hoʻoikaika i kona ikaika i ka luku ʻana i ka home a hiki i ka hopena ke kaʻawale ke kāne a me ka wahine a pili nā keiki..

Ka Kaula (S.A.W.S) i ʻōlelo ai: “Hoʻonoho ʻo Iblis i kona noho aliʻi ma luna o ka wai; hoouna aku la oia i na puuwai (no ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka hakakā ma waena o nā kānaka); ʻO ka mea kokoke loa iā ia ma ke kūlana, ʻo ia ka poʻe kaulana loa i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i nā kuʻuna. Hele mai kekahi o lākou a ʻōlelo: "Ua hana au pela a pela." A ʻōlelo ʻo ia: "ʻAʻohe mea āu i hana ai." A laila hele mai kekahi o lākou a ʻōlelo: "ʻAʻole au i hoʻokaʻawale i kēlā a me kēia a hiki i koʻu lūlū ʻana i ka hua o ka hakakā ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine." Hele ʻo Sātana a kokoke iā ia a ʻōlelo: "Ua hana maikaʻi ʻoe." A laila, apo ʻo ia iā ia "
(Sahih Muslim a haʻi ʻia e Jabir Ibn 'Abdullah).

No laila he aha kāu e hana ai e pale i kou home a pale aku iā Shaytaan mai ke komo ʻana i loko? Makemake ʻo ia e hāʻawi i kekahi ʻāpana i nā lilo o ka home a i ʻole e mālama ʻo ia i ke kālā āpau nona iho:

1. Ua hana ʻia ʻo Sātana mai ke ahi, No laila, ʻo kekahi o nā ala maikaʻi loa e pale ai iā ʻoe iho mai ka hoʻopilikia ʻia e ia, ʻo ia ka hana wudu, no ka mea, e pio ka wai i ke ahi! Ma ka olelo maoli, inā e paio ana ʻolua me kāu kāne, e hele e hana i ka wudu a insha'Allah e nalowale kou huhu.

Ka Kaula (p.b.u.h.) i ʻōlelo ai: “Ke huhū kekahi o ʻoukou, e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻo ia me ka wai e like me ka piʻi ʻana o ka huhū mai ke ahi mai.” Ma kekahi moʻolelo ʻē aʻe, wahi āna: “No ka diabolo mai ka huhu a ua hanaia ka diabolo i ke ahi.”

1. E heluhelu i ka Surah Baqarah i ʻekolu pō ma kou home, no ka mea, e holo ana o Satana mai kahi home aku i heluheluia ai keia Surah. Inā pilikia ʻoe, Hiki iā ʻoe ke pāʻani i ka heluhelu ʻana i ka Surah Baqarah ma kahi - pono e hoʻopau i ka surah i ka lā 3.
2. E komo i loko o ka maʻamau o ka mālama ʻana i kou alelo me ka hoʻomanaʻo iā Allah SWT a hana pinepine i ka dhikr. ʻAʻole e hawanawana ʻo Sātana iā ʻoe ke hana ʻoe i kēia.
3. Ke manaʻo ʻoe e hele mai ana kahi hoʻopaʻapaʻa, e heluhelu iā Aoutho billahi min al-shaytani-r-ragim a e holo ʻo Shaytaan mai ou aku.
4. Inā makaʻu ʻoe e lilo ka huhū o kāu kāne iā ʻoe, e heluhelu i ka aytul kursi e like me kou hiki ke puni ia lakou malalo o kou hanu.
5. Ua hāʻawi ka Makaula SAW i kēia mau ʻōlelo aʻo no ka hoʻomaha ʻana i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa:

Ka Kaula (p.b.u.h.) i ʻōlelo ai: “He lanahu wela ka huhū. ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike i kou mau kuʻemaka ākea a ʻulaʻula nā maka? No laila ke huhū kekahi o ʻoukou, e noho i lalo inā kū, a moe i lalo ke noho.”

Nui nā ala e hiki ai iā ʻoe ke hōʻoluʻolu i kahi kūlana a he mea nui kēia i nā wahine e ʻike i ka poʻe kāne me ka huhū pōkole..

A hope loa, e aʻo e hoʻomalu i kou alelo. ʻAʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ka luku ma mua o ka waha ʻino a me ke ʻano hoʻopaʻapaʻa. E haʻalele wau iā ʻoe i kahi haʻihaʻi hope e pili ana i ka huhū:

"Pākahi, ua hōʻino wale kekahi kanaka iā Abu Bakr (e ʻoluʻolu mai ke Akua iā ia) oiai ke Kaula (Maluna ona) e nana ana me ka minoaka. Ma hope o ka hoʻomāinoino nui ʻana, Ua pane aku ʻo Abu Bakr i kekahi o kāna mau ʻōlelo. Ma keia, ua hōʻike ka Makaula i kona ʻae ʻole, ala aʻela a haʻalele. Hopu aku la o Abu Bakr i ke Kaula a haohao, 'E ka ʻelele a ke Akua, ua hana ino mai ia'u a noho oe. I koʻu pane ʻana aku iā ia, ua hōʻole ʻoe a ala aʻe,

'He ʻānela me ʻoe e pane ana iā ia. I kou pane ʻana iā ia, Ua kū ʻo Sātana i kona wahi.’ ʻŌlelo maila ʻo ia:

‘O Abu Bakr, ʻekolu ʻoiaʻiʻo paʻa: Ina i hewa ke kanaka a hoomanawanui (me ka imi ole i ka hoopai) no ke Akua mana loa, Na ke Akua e hoʻohanohano iā ia a hāʻawi iā ia i ka lima kiʻekiʻe me kāna kōkua; inā wehe ke kanaka i ka puka hāʻawi makana no ka hoʻopaʻa ʻana i ka pilina me nā ʻohana, Na ke Akua e hāʻawi iā ia i ka nui; a, ina e wehe ke kanaka i ka puka e imi i ke aloha nona iho e hoonui i kona waiwai, Na ke Akua e hoemi hou aku i kona waiwai.’” (Musnad Ahmad).

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