ავტორი: სუფთა ქორწინება
We’ll be talking to brother Muhammed Mustafa who spent 10 years searching for the one before joining Pure Matrimony. After just 7 დღეები, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!
This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!
*უკრავს – Pure Matrimony Intro*
ასსალამუ ალაიკუმი, As a practicing Muslim, მე მესმის თქვენი შეშფოთება ინტერნეტით ღვთისმოსავი მეუღლის პოვნის მცდელობასთან დაკავშირებით და გულწრფელად რომ გითხრათ, არ მიკვირს, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, ჰგავს ნაჩქარევში ნემსის პოვნას….
არფა: ასსალამუ ალაიკუმი (wrb) and Welcome to the family matters show. მე ვარ შენი მასპინძელი სის. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, Maasha Allah, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. Ისე, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. Ისე, without further do, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, Ისე, Br.Mustafa, Როგორ ხარ? ასსალამუ ალაიკუმი!
ძმ. Mustafa: ვა ალაიკკუმ სალამ(wrb). WL, I’m doing great! Როგორ ხარ?
არფა: Excellent! Really good to hear from you, ძმაო. Ისე, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. შენ იცი, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.
ძმ. Mustafa: უფლება! კარგად, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.
არფა:კარგი, Maasha Allah!
ძმ. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, რა, you would call it an e-commerce company, მე ვფიქრობ, that will be the best word.
არფა: ოჰ, კარგი, Excellent!
ძმ. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (დის. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.
არფა: Oh.. Excellent.. Maasha Allah! You speak fluent Arabic then?
ძმ. Mustafa: WL!
არფა: Very lucky, Maasha Allah! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, Maasha Allah, Ისე, you know talking about your, basically, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.
ძმ. Mustafa: კარგად! რეალურად, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, მაგრამ, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% ძალისხმევა, like I was really searching.
არფა: Subhaanallah! ვაუ! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, Maasha Allah. და, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?
ძმ. Mustafa: უფლება, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, მაგრამ, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( დის. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.
არფა: Not the right profiles in UAE?
ძმ. Mustafa: ჰო. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, შენ იცი, to get married.
არფა: Კარგი. ჰო. იმიტომ რომ, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, მაგრამ, შენ იცი, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.
ძმ. Mustafa:Სწორია!
არფა: უფლება! Კარგი. Excellent! Ისე, you know what happened after that then?
ძმ. Mustafa: კარგად, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.
არფა: ოჰ. Maasha Allah! Last Year?
ძმ. Mustafa: ჰო! დიახ, last year (დის. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.
არფა: ჰო. Maasha Allah. ჰო. We are very clear on that.
ძმ. Mustafa: ზუსტად. Ისე, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, its halal. This is what it is.
არფა: WL! WL!
ძმ. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.
არფა: Კარგი. დიახ. Maasha Allah (chuckles)
ძმ. Mustafa: მოსწონს, I had to pay literally nothing at all. Ისე, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, მე ვგულისხმობ, it is I don’t know how people would take this…like, the first question people would ask like……..
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სუფთა ქორწინება – მსოფლიოში ყველაზე დიდი ქორწინების სერვისი პრაქტიკოსი მუსლიმებისთვის.
მაშა ალაჰ!!! it’s really inspirational for being patient….
Subhana ‘Allah Daz Masha’ALLAH
Masha’ALLAH
May Almighty Allah bless them….
Masha Allah beautiful story, May Allah bless their marriage and thank you purematremony for everything!
მაშაალა, inspirational story. May Allah bless him and his wife and grant them happiness in this life and the other.
მაშაალა, very inspiring story…may Allah bless them and thanks for getting this lesson …
good to so