Gawani Izi
Gwero: Alima, http://iamalima.org/men-are-the-protectors-of-women/
“Zikuoneka kuti abale ako ali nawe pansi pa chala chachikulu!?“
“Erm... Sindikudziwa chomwe mukutanthauza, koma ok...“
Ndinayankha, kusokonezedwa ndi mawu a sister. (Aliyense akuganiza “angoti chiyani?!”) Ndiyenera kukhala woona mtima panthawiyo, Ine kulibwino ndilole izo zipite (ndipo sichinthu choyipa), komabe mawu otere amamveka mukakumbutsidwa ndi china chake ... (Ndifotokoza pomaliza momwe zikugwirira ntchito kwa da'ees).
Kukambirana uku kunabweranso nditaphunzira tafseer ya Ayat iyi…
“Amuna ndi amene amatsogolera () ya akazi ndi [kumanja kwa] zimene Mulungu wapereka kwa wina ndi mzake ndi zimene akupereka [za kukonza] kuchokera ku chuma chawo. Choncho akazi olungama amamvera modzipereka, kulondera mu [za mwamuna] kulibe chimene Allah akanawateteza…” Surah Nisaa, Ndime 34
Allah 'azza wa Jal akutiuza kuti amuna ndi osamalira akazi, osati olamulira mwankhanza…
Ndiye mumadzifunsa – zikutanthawuza chiyani ndi Qawwam? Malinga ndi Bernard Shaw amatanthauza kukwaniritsa chinachake, kusunga, kuthandizira, samalira – Fanizo la munthu wachisilamu ndiloti thandizo, ku samalira mkaziyo. Wothandizira ameneyu ndi amene amasamalira banja.
Chifukwa chake, si mwayi, ndi udindo. Ndi za kugwira ntchito.
Ndipo akazi abwino ndi omvera, kuwathandiza mu masomphenya awo, m’maloto awo, pothandizana wina ndi mnzake kupembedza Allah Jalla wa ‘alaa.
Izi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito molakwika ndi ena amuna, koma ndizokongola kwambiri momwe zimasonyezera kuti amuna ali ndi makhalidwe omwe akazi alibe ndipo akazi ali ndi makhalidwe omwe amuna alibe. Choncho Allah wawapanga kuti ayamikizane wina ndi mzake kuti agwire ntchito limodzi kuti akhale wopambana.
Akazi ndi ofanana ndi amuna - kulondola, woyenera, wabwino – Amene amayamikira makhalidwe a qawwam ndipo ali oyenera kwa iye.
Qawwam ikupanga zotheka kwa mayiyu kuti apitilize kumvera Allah, amamuthandiza, ndiye bwenzi lake ndi wothandizira wodzipereka - iwo ndi omwe adzalera banja ndikupanga banja lapangondya = – amene adzakhala mwa amene akuutengera Ummah uwu mulingo wina inshaAllah.
Izi ndi zomwe Munthu woyenera ayenera kukhala! (Ndisanayiwale, Sindikunena izi… Uyu ndi Allah ‘azza wa jal)! Akutiuza kuti Amuna ali ndi digiri pa akazi pankhani yotsogolera mabanja, ndipo nthawi zambiri mu Ummah. (Osati kuti alongo sangapange chochita, angathe, adachita ndipo adachita alhamdulillah).
1Zimene Mulungu wapereka maudindo ena kwa abale omwe alongo alibe. Ndi za ife tonse kulinganiza nthawi yathu (muyenera kupeza nthawi ya izi) ndi kuonetsetsa kuti mukuchitapo kanthu pa Ummah uwu, popeza ndi udindo wathu tonse…
2Gulu la Asilamu lilibe utsogoleri weniweni ndipo palibe amene ali kwenikweni kutenga udindo). Tanthauzo; kuchita chifukwa cha Allah ndi IHSAAN ndi cholinga chopanga IMPACT! Kupitilira ntchito yathu ya dipatimenti yathu NDIkugwira ntchito limodzi… Motani wokongola zikanakhala ngati ife tikuyendetsa patsogolo ntchito zodabwitsa?
3Akumbutsanso amuna kuti asamatengerepo mwayi akazi; musalole changu chawo kukulepheretsani kupita patsogolo. Ayenera kukhala mpikisano; sikuti ndikusiya kutsitsa kwa ena…
4Nthawi zina alongo amakhala ndi vuto ndi abale omwe amawalamulira kwambiri ndipo abale amakhala ndi vuto ndi alongo omwe amawalamulira, izi si Maganizo a Qur'an, koma ndi za KUWATHANDIZA iwo mu makhalidwe omwe tilibe ndi iwo KUTITHANDIZA ife mwathu ndi kukwaniritsa ntchito zomwe Allah watipatsa..
5Allah adawalenga amuna kukhala atetezi awo, ndi akazi monga Awo othandizira odzipereka. Mu Ayat ikubwera, Iye jalla wa ‘alaa akuuza ife, musakhale nazo (nsanje) pa wina ndi mzake. Tikufuna aliyense mu da'wah iyi kuti achitepo kanthu, abale ndi alongo ndikuyamikirana!
6Iye…Wamphamvu, Wanzeru zakuya akukumbutsa Akazi, kuti ngati muli olungama mudzawathandiza, mudzawathandiza MKUPATIKA JANNAH! Mudzakhala pamenepo kwa iwo (kutenga da’wah patsogolo).
Izi zikungotikumbutsa kuti tonse ndife apadera komanso ngati timayang'ana kwambiri zomwe tonse tidachita bwino, takhala bwino!
Gwero: Alima, http://iamalima.org/men-are-the-protectors-of-women/
Ndakhala ndikukhulupirira izi…ngakhale asanalowe m'Chisilamu (Alhamdulillah!)
Kugonjera SI mawu onyansa…ndipo ndikukuthokozani chifukwa cha mawu anu anzeru ndi
chifukwa cha mawu anzeru a Mulungu amene mwatuluka mawu anu.
Nkhani yabwino, komabe sindikuwona zomwe kwenikweni amuna amasowa zomwe akazi ali nazo. Ndikumva chisoni kuti mkazi amayenera kudzisamalira yekha kuti asakwiyitse mwamuna, koma lero chimene munthu akudziwadi kusiyana pakati pa kulamula ndi kuthandizira? Atsikana ayenera kukhala amphamvu poyamba chifukwa ndife ofooka mwachibadwa monga momwe tafotokozera m'nkhaniyo ” akazi ndi zigawo zotsutsana ndi amuna”. Amuna amalimbikitsidwa ndipo safuna akazi monga momwe akazi amafunira amuna.
Izi sizowona. Akazi, ndipo onse awiri amasowa wina ndi mzake kwambiri. Amayi ndi abambo onse ali ndi zofooka. Ndikofunika kuzindikira kuti ndi zofooka zosiyana, ndi kuti amuna samawawonetsa nthawi zonse mofanana ndi akazi. Azimayi timakonda kuvala mitima yathu pamapewa athu, koma chifukwa chakuti amuna satero, sizikutanthauza kuti alibe mtima. Allah watipatsa ntchito zonse zomwe tiyenera kukhala amphamvu, ndi otiteteza kumadera athu omwe ndife ofooka. Uku ndi kukongola kwa Allah kuti wawerengera mphamvu zathu zonse ndi zofooka zathu. Chifukwa chakuti Amuna ali ndi udindo pa zofooka zathu, sizikutanthauza kuti tingakhale aulesi ndi kunyalanyaza udindo wathu, ndi momwemonso kwa amuna.
mlongo wokondedwa,
ndife ofooka thupi – mwina sitingathe kunyamula mwala etc., koma tili ndi mphamvu zobala! – Choncho amuna amafuna akazi kuposa akazi amuna.
1. amafuna akazi ngati mayi – ndipo apa ndikufuna kuti mukumbukire kuti paradiso ali pamapazi a amayi!
2. amafuna akazi ngati mlongo (ngati ali nawo)
3. amafuna akazi ngati akazi – mawu ochokera m'nkhaniyi: Ndipo akazi abwino ndi omvera, kuwathandiza mu masomphenya awo, m’maloto awo, pothandizana kupembedza Allah jalla wa ‘alaa. …kotero abambo amafunikira thandizo la amayi kuti akwaniritse zolinga zawo kuphatikiza. jannah 🙂
Mulungu akudalitseni
Mlongo Huriya, Chonde musachotsedwe. Ngakhale mungafune kukhudzika bwanji simunganene kuti amuna amafunikira akazi kuposa momwe amafunira amuna kapena mosemphanitsa.
Mfundo yakuti Allah walenga awiri, kuti mmodzi agwirizane ndi mzake, amatsutsa chitsimikiziro chimenecho. M'munsimu, ngakhale, ndikuti amuna ali ndi digiri pamwamba pa akazi, zomveka komanso zosavuta. Ndipo Allah ndiye, amene ananena chomwecho. Analenga mwamuna poyamba asanalenge mkazi, ndipo adamulenga kuchokera kunthiti ya munthu. Nthawi zonse ankasankha atumiki Ake kupatula pakati pa anthu.
Ndikhululukireni ngati ndikumveka ngati kugonana, sindine! Sindingathe kupirira kuwona akazi omwe akufuna kupikisana ndi amuna ngati kuti ndi mpikisano. Chinthu chokha choyenera kupikisana nacho ndi kuyanjidwa kwa Allah ndipo ngakhale mpikisanowo si 'mwamuna kutsutsana ndi mkazi'., ndi 'mmodzi motsutsana ndi wina aliyense'!
Tiyeni tikonze zofunika zathu, wassalam.
Salaam,
Nanga bwanji; tonsefe timafunikirana? Ndipo timatero, kuti tikhale ogwirizana m’madera athu. Chimodzi mwazifukwa zazikulu zokambilanazi ndichifukwa choti tasokera ku sunna yolondola ndi adhab ya momwe timakhalirana wina ndi mzake., ndipo chofunika kwambiri, zotsatira zomaliza – zomwe ndi chisangalalo cha Mulungu (swt) ndi nyumba ku Jannah.
Pachidziwitso chimenecho, kuponderezedwa kukachitika tonse tiyenera kuyimirira limodzi ndikuwongolera, zikhale kwa mwamuna ndi mkazi ndipo inde tonse tili ndi zofunika ndipo aliyense ali ndi udindo wake. Komabe, udindo uwu kapena kutsindika zofunika kwambiri sikuyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati ndodo ya karoti kwa wina ndi mzake. Amuna ndi akazi onse amachita btw, m'malo, ziyenera kugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati zikumbutso, kuti atikumbutse cholinga chachikulu — chisangalalo cha Allah (swt).
Ndikumaliza, siziri ngakhale za kuwonjezera, m'malo, ndi kuthandiza ena pa zolinga zawo m’moyo ndi zimene amaika patsogolo, uku ndikuchita zenizeni komanso zothandiza, m'malo mongoganizira chabe.
Ndipo Allah (swt) amadziwa bwino.
Salam alaikum, Ndikugwirizana ndi Alima. Kumvetsetsa kwanga ndikuti tonse tiyenera kukhala ofanana pakupembedza kwathu ndi Chikhulupiriro cha Chisilamu. Ena onse amaonedwa kuti ndi ochepa; kapena kutsekeredwa m'malo pomwe Kupembedza Mulungu (swt) ndi nkhawa. Inde, ndife anthu osiyana, komabe timalandira madalitso omwewo
ndi kuzindikira kochokera kwa Mulungu (swt) chifukwa cha zochita zathu ndi momwe makhalidwe athu amazindikiridwa ndi IYE Allah. Tonse timathandizana wina ndi mzake chifukwa cha Allah (swt).
Walaikum Salam Fatima
m’banja, pali maudindo ambiri
ambiri adanenapo pa positi iyi ndipo ambiri sanatero.
Ena mwa maudindowa adzakwaniritsidwa ndi mwamuna
Ena mwa maudindowa adzakwaniritsidwa ndi mkazi
Ena mwa maudindowa adzakwaniritsidwa ndi ana
amene amachita chiyani, Allah watipatsa luntha loti tigwire ntchito choncho chonde yesani kugwiritsa ntchito.
ndemanga zina patsamba lino ndizachidziwikire unislamic ndi vertue.