Kulambira Mbali Ndi Mbali

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Amr Khaled ndi m'modzi mwa olankhula Chisilamu odziwika kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi. The New York Times Magazine, ponena za kutchuka kwa Amr Khaled m'mayiko achiarabu, adamufotokozera mu Epulo 30, 2006 nkhani ngati “mlaliki wachisilamu wachisilamu wotchuka kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi.” Posachedwapa wasankhidwa kukhala nambala 13 mwa anthu otchuka kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi ndi Time Magazine komanso wachisanu ndi chimodzi wanzeru kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi ndi magazini ya Prospect..

Mawu ake, zolankhula pa TV, ndi nkhani za Ramadan zimawonedwa ndi anthu padziko lonse lapansi. Ziphunzitso zake zimakhala m’nkhani zonse zachisilamu monga ndale, makhalidwe, Mbiri ya Chisilamu, kusintha kwa anthu, ukwati, moyo wabanja, ndi zina.

Imodzi mwa nkhani zake zodziwika bwino za Ramadan idatchedwa “Al Ganah Fe Boyotna” (Paradaiso M'banja Lathu). M’nkhani zotsatizanazi analankhula za mmene angabweretsere chifupi, chipembedzo, chisangalalo, ndi kumvetsetsa m'mabanja athu pakati pa mamembala onse a banja.

Mu gawo loyamba akutero, kumasuliridwa kuchokera ku Chiarabu, “Anthu ambiri amaona kuti moyo wakhala wosasangalatsa komanso wosapiririka…dziko ili ndi lotani? Zonse ndi nkhondo, mavuto, ndi ululu…koma Mulungu adatipatsa chifundo, anatipatsa nyumba zathu…lili ndi chimwemwe chonse chimene mukufunikira. Ili ndi chitonthozo ndi chitetezo. Nyumba yanu iyenera kukhala malo achimwemwe padziko lapansi pano mpaka mutafa ndikulowa kumwamba.”

“Mulungu anakupatsani inu paradaiso padziko lapansi pano pokupatsani inu nyumba ndi banja ndipo anakupatsani inu paradaiso m’moyo wapambuyo pake pokupatsani inu kumwamba,” adatero.

Izi mndandanda ali 30 magawo, koma yomwe ndikufuna kunena lero ndi yoyamba. Mu gawoli Amr Khaled akufotokoza malangizo asanu atsiku ndi tsiku omwe banja lililonse, kaya mwangokwatirana kumene ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi chabe, kapena ngati muli ndi ana, kapena kukhala ndi achibale, ayenera kutenga nawo gawo kuti akhale ndi nyumba yathanzi komanso yachimwemwe komanso moyo wabwinoko. Malangizowa ali m'gulu limodzi: Sankhani kulambira Mulungu pamodzi.

1. Pempherani pamodzi.
Kupemphera pamodzi kumabweretsa chifundo ndi angelo mnyumba ndikuthamangitsa zoipa zilizonse.

Pempherani ma Raka osachepera awiri (pemphero limodzi) pamodzi usiku uliwonse. “Tangoganizirani mwamuna ndi mkazi wake amene ankapemphera limodzi kwa Mulungu usiku uliwonse akudzuka n’kumamenyana ndi malaya osasiyidwa m’mawa.…sindikuganiza choncho,” adatero moseka. Akuti ma Rak3 awiri okha pamodzi amatha kubweretsa mitima yanu pafupi ngati mukumva kuti muli kutali ndi mnzanuyo…ndi zamatsenga kwenikweni.

Zodabwitsa ndizakuti amanenanso, “Ngati ndinu mkazi wanzeru, ndipo mukufuna kumusunga mwamuna wanu pambali panu, nena kwa iye kuti ‘dzuka, tiyeni tipemphere limodzi.’”

2. Werengani Quran pamodzi.
Ngakhale ili Ayah imodzi (chiganizo) tsiku lililonse. Kapena chitani Khitma yabanja (kumaliza Korani) mwa kugaŵa mituyo pakati pa munthu aliyense m’banjamo kuti amalize m’nthaŵi yoikidwiratu. Kapena ngati mukuyendetsa galimoto pamodzi, inunso mukhoza kumvetsera kwa izo.

3. Pa Zikr (kukumbukira Allah) pamodzi.
Nenani Tasabeeh (kubwereza mawu ngati Elhamdulillah – Tiyamike ambuye – mobwerezabwereza) pamodzi ngakhale kwa mphindi zingapo zokha, kaya muli m’galimoto kapena mutakhala m’chipinda chanu chochezera.

Mneneri (pbuh) adatero, “Nyumba yochita Zikr ndi yamoyo ndipo nyumba yosakhalamo ndi yakufa.” Panthawi yake, Amr Khaled anatero, “Banja lanu lidzakhala losangalala.”

4. Awiri (kupemphera kwa Mulungu) pamodzi.
Izi siziyenera kukhala zomveka kapena mawu ovuta. Ingonenani zomwe mukufuna ngati banja, m'chinenero chilichonse, sichiyenera kukhala mu Chiarabu chachikhalidwe. Mutha kupanga Duaa yanu pambuyo popemphera kapena mutakhala pamodzi musanagone.

5. Khalani achifundo limodzi.
Mwachitsanzo, mu Ramadan dyetsani Asilamu osala kudya kapena banja limodzi.

Amr Khaled akunena kuti Dunya uyu (dziko / dziko) idayambitsidwa ndi banja, mwa mwamuna ndi mkazi… Adamu ndi Eva. Osati gulu la anthu, osati kampani, palibe munthu m'modzi. Chifukwa chake ndi gawo lofunikira kwambiri padziko lapansi.

"Banja ndi Mithak Ghaleeth (pangano lomangiriza),” akutero. Osati mgwirizano chabe. Ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu kuposa pamenepo. Mawuwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito katatu kokha mu Quran, imodzi mwa izo ndi ya ukwati. Izi zikusonyeza kufunika kwa mgwirizano umenewu pamaso pa Mulungu.

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