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اسان ڀاءُ محمد مصطفيٰ سان ڳالهائينداسين جنهن خرچ ڪيو 10 Pure Matrimony ۾ شامل ٿيڻ کان اڳ سالن جي ڳولا. بس کان پوء 7 ڏينهن, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!

This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!

*راند ڪرڻ – Pure Matrimony Intro*

السلام عليڪم, As a practicing Muslim, مان سمجھان ٿو توھان جي خدشن جي حوالي سان ھڪڙو پرھيزگار مڙس آن لائن ڳولڻ جي ڪوشش ڪرڻ ۽ بلڪل صاف طور تي مان حيران نه آھيان, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, جلدي ٽيگ ۾ سوئي ڳولڻ جي ڪوشش ڪرڻ وانگر آهي….

ارفع: السلام عليڪم (wrb) and Welcome to the family matters show. مان تنهنجي ميزبان آهيان. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, Maasha Allah, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. سو, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. سو, without further do, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, سو, Br.Mustafa, توهان ڪيئن آهيو? السلام عليڪم!

بر. Mustafa: وعليڪم السلام(wrb). WL, I’m doing great! توهان ڪيئن آهيو?

ارفع: Excellent! Really good to hear from you, ڀاءُ. سو, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. ٿوهان کي خبر آهي, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.

بر. Mustafa: ساڄو! خير, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.

ارفع:ڄاڻو ته توهان جو مڙس توهان سان ٿورو ناراض ٿي سمهڻ وارو آهي, Maasha Allah!

بر. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, what, you would call it an e-commerce company, مان سوچيان ٿو, that will be the best word.

ارفع: اوهه, ڄاڻو ته توهان جو مڙس توهان سان ٿورو ناراض ٿي سمهڻ وارو آهي, Excellent!

بر. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (سس. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.

ارفع: Oh.. Excellent.. Maasha Allah! You speak fluent Arabic then?

بر. Mustafa: WL!

ارفع: Very lucky, Maasha Allah! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, Maasha Allah, سو, you know talking about your, basically, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.

بر. Mustafa: خير! اصل ۾, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, پر, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% ڪوشش, like I was really searching.

ارفع: Subhaanallah! توھان اسلام کي ھڪڙي مسلمان جي طور تي فيصلو نه ٿا ڪري سگھو ڇو ته دنيا جا اڪثر مسلمان اصل ۾ / مڪمل طور تي اسلامي تعليمات تي عمل نٿا ڪن! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, Maasha Allah. ۽, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?

بر. Mustafa: ساڄو, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, پر, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( سس. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.

ارفع: Not the right profiles in UAE?

بر. Mustafa: ها. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, ٿوهان کي خبر آهي, to get married.

ارفع: ٺيڪ. ها. ڇاڪاڻ ته, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, پر, ٿوهان کي خبر آهي, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.

بر. Mustafa:اهو درست آهي!

ارفع: ساڄو! ٺيڪ. Excellent! سو, you know what happened after that then?

بر. Mustafa: خير, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.

ارفع: اوهه. Maasha Allah! Last Year?

بر. Mustafa: ها! ها, last year (سس. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.

ارفع: ها. Maasha Allah. ها. We are very clear on that.

بر. Mustafa: بلڪل. سو, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, its halal. This is what it is.

ارفع: WL! WL!

بر. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.

ارفع: ٺيڪ. ها. Maasha Allah (کلڻ)

بر. Mustafa: جهڙو, I had to pay literally nothing at all. سو, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, I mean, it is I don’t know how people would take this…like, the first question people would ask like……..

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