8 nzira dzekutsvaga munhu akakodzera wekuroora

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naAbu Thabit

Kuroorana hakusi chinhu chiri nyore. Isu tinozvifunga semufaro unoshamisa werudo uyo watichazowana rimwe zuva.

Hanzvadzi dzinorota dzichiroora mukoma uya anoshamisa ane hunhu hweMutumwa waAllah, Eman yaAbu Bakr, ushingi hwaHamuza, hupfumi hwa'AbdiRahmaan bin 'Awf tisingataure nezve SWAG ye2PAC Shakur (OK pamwe haasi wekupedzisira) asi chokwadi chinoramba chiripo, munhu wose anoda kuroora kuti munhu anoshamisa zvechokwadi uye hazvina zvakawanda zvakasiyana vakomana.

Tinoshuvira kupinda muHoor al-'Een yakarasika kubva kuJannah (hatina kunyanya kunetsana neKUTI akarasika sei, chakakosha ndechekuti anoda kutiroora) Ndinoreva kuti sei zvisina kumboitika? Hazvizoitika, nekuti urikuswera uchirota mukoma ndosaka.

Zvino muka uteerere kuchidzidzo chipfupi ichi mune zvimwe zvakakosha “Ita uye Usaita” pamwe nemamwe mashoko anobatsira inshaaAllaah.

#8 DVISA VAKAROORANA PAFACEBOOK
Uye chero imwe social network yenyaya iyoyo

Sezvo isu tichipedza yakawanda yenguva yedu online mazuva ano, zviri nyore kwazvo kuedza kuzadzisa zvese zvatinoda online, kunyangwe kuda kuwana mweya wekuroora. Zvino usandifungira zvisizvo, kune michato inonyatsoita basa, uye handivengi hama nehanzvadzi dzakaita kuti zvishande (chero chinoyangarara zvikepe zvako akhis uye ukthis, ingozvichengeta zviri halaal), asi ngatitarisei, Indaneti inzvimbo inoshamisa zvikuru.

Munhu wose anoedza nguva dzose kuratidzika kuva mutsvene kupfuura zvaari chaizvo, kunyangwe muKaafir anogona kunyepedzera kuve mudzidzi wechiMuslim pane zvese zvaunoziva. Mumazuva ekare vanhu vairoora vamwe vanhu vavaiziva chaizvo, uye hupenyu hwaive hwakatsetseka zvakanyanya, mumashoko akawandisa.

Asi nhasi unoroora mumwe munhu anouya seanonamata online chete kuti uzive pausiku hwemuchato wako haanyatso kuomesera Salah., oh uye ndakati ane matani eshamwari dzinongoitika sevasikana? Uye tisingatauri kuti anosvuta (sorry ndakanganwa kukuudzawo izvozvo, ndine urombo) pfungwa iri, chenjera kwazvo nezve CHESE online mazano.

Kana munhu ari serious uye ari mukomana akanaka, vadonhedze nhamba wali wako uye regai kukurukura navo zvakare, wobva waziva kuti munhu wacho ari gentleman here kana kuti kwete.

#7 SHAMWARIDZANA NEVANHU VAKANAKA
Izvi zvinozovhura musuwo wetiweki gare gare, nekuti rimwe rematambudziko makuru nhasi nderekuti vanhu vazhinji vanobvunza, ‘Zvakanaka asi ndosanganawo sei nevaroora vakanaka?’ uye vanowanzoti ‘handizivi munhu!’ asi chokwadi munhu wese anoziva MUMWE MUNHU.

Ngaive iyo shamwari yaunongoita kunge unosangana kumasjid kune zviitiko zvikuru, kana muzukuru wako wausingapedzi nguva yakawanda naye, pane nguva dzose mumwe munhu waunogona kushamwaridzana naye. Asi yeuka kuti vanhu ava vanofanira kunge vari vanhu vanodzidzira zvakanaka ivo pachavo nokuti vanogona kukubatsira kukuzivisa kune vamwe vanhu vanodzidzira vanogonawo kuva nehanzvadzi nehanzvadzi dziri kutsvaga muchato..

Vimba neni, inoshanda. Edzai zvenyu muone, but usangoita that one sister (kana hama) uyo anoGARA achitaura nezvewanano uye murume kana mukadzi, nekuti mikana iripo iwe unogona kunyorwa se “nyota” kana zvisina kuipa.

Uye kana izvozvo zvikakundikana, panogara paine facebook.

#6 IVA PANZVIMBO DZAKANAKA
Nenzira imwechete iyo iwe haungawani yako inoshamisa mhandara niqabi mukadzi pakirabhu, kutamba kusvika pakati pehusiku. Iwe, iwe pachako unofanirwa kutarisa munzvimbo dzakakodzera, uye rudzi urwu runotidzosera kune yakapfuura.

Enda kuzvidzidzo, kudzidza madenderedzwa kana zvimwe kuzvipira kubatsira kumasjid nezvimwe, zvese izvi zvichakuvhurira musuwo wekuti usangane nevanhu vakakodzera uye ukangozivana navo unogona kusimudza nyaya yewanano zvine hungwaru..

Rangarira kuti vanhu vazhinji vanoroora vanokuudza kuti vakaziva murume kana mukadzi kana hama neshamwari, kana kuti vangave vakambosangana vachiita zvimwe chetezvo, saka try to be more active and usangogara pamba uchizvinzwira tsitsi. Haa ndoregawo kuenda kuclub.

DISCLAIMER: Iyi webhusaiti haitsigire chero kutaura pakati pevarume pasina kutariswa kweWali. Iva murume uye wedzera mutambo wako kana uchimuda zvechokwadi. Zvikasadaro enda kufacebook.

#5 IVA CHOKWADI
Dzimwe nguva knight yako mune inopenya nhumbi dzokurwa ingori miskeen dude mune tin foil

Mikana iripo, hausi kuzosangana nemwanakomana waShaikh Sudais, ndodawo Shaikh pachake, uye kunyangwe wakadaro, Ini ndinokahadzika kuti chero mumwe wavo angakukumbira muchato (zvimwe se'KUCHENGETEKA!') Saka edza kuita kuti tariro yako ive yechokwadi, hongu tose tinoda kuroora Haafidh, tese tinoda hanzvadzi inoziva zvese zvekufadza murume asi asati amboita mukomana. Tese tinoda hama inonamata zvikuru ine ndebvu refu (kureba kwendebvu ndiko kukura kwaTaqwa chaiko?) anewo imba uye ane mota, plus anofanira kunge achinyatsozivawo, inga bin baaz anoziva, zviri nani kwete bofu zvakadaro, oh uye six pack haingakuvadze futi.

Asi kazhinji tinokanganwa, kuti kana waroora munhu, vachine upenyu hwavo hwose mberi kwavo. Vazhinji vevakadzi venyanzvi huru vakaroora varume ava vanokatyamadza ivo vachiri 'vasina vanhu’ uye saizvozvo unodzidzisa mudzimai wako (nounyoro) sei kuva rudo uye zvose rwendo. Kana uchifunga kuti ucharoora iyeye munhu akakwana ane zvese, haufe wakaroora uye ndicho chokwadi chakaoma.

Iwe unozopedzisira wave pafacebook kusefa kubva kune imwe mbiri kuenda kune imwe.

#4 BANDISAI VABEREKI VAKO
Vanhu vazhinji havadi kuita izvi, chero chikonzero. Vasikana vakawanda vanongonyarawo kuunza michato kuvabereki vavo, kana vabereki vakavatarisa se “horny” kana kuti nyajambwa wamahomoni epwere. Vamwe vanotya kuti kana vakabatanidza vabereki vachanzwa vachimanikidzwa kuroora munhu wavasingadi kuroora., kungofadza vabereki vavo chete.

Unoyeuka kuti imwe nguva shamwari yako yakataura kuvabereki VAKE kuti aida kuroora? Uye kuti vabereki vake vamubatsire kutsvaga mukoma akanaka? Uye kusamunzwisisa zvachose uye ikozvino wanzwa kuti shamwari yako yakadzokera kuBangladesh uye yave 7 vana pazera re 21? Ehe izvo hazvisi kuzoitika zvachose kwauri.

Zvino zvandiri kupa zano inzira yepakati. Taura nyaya yacho kuvabereki vako, kana kana uchinyara zvakanyanya, taura nemukoma wako kana kuti mumwe munhu anogona kutaura nyaya yacho nevabereki vako. Wobva wakumbira vabereki vako kuti vakutarire, rangarira kuti vanogona kungokurudzira asi sarudzo yekupedzisira ichiri newe. Uye vazhinji vedu hatitombo shandisa iyi sarudzo, zvinova zvinosuwisa zvikuru.

Vabereki vedu ndivo vega vanhu vapenyu pasi pano vangatiitira chero chinhu nezvese, saka wadii kuvabvunza?

#3 WAKANGA HERE KUSVIRA KUROORA?
Handirevi kukuvhundutsa nekubvunza mubvunzo uyu, sevaMuslim tinofanira kugara tichivavarira kuroora nekuti iri Sunnah yeMuporofita wedu anodiwa.

Asi dzimwe nguva, vamwe vanhu vanomhanyira kuroora. Vanofunga nokuti vakagadzirira mumuviri (vane zvishuwo etc) kuti vanofanira kuroora, kukanganwa kuti naProphet vakatotaura kuti vane MEANS dzekuroora ngavadaro. Zvino kuva nechokushandisa hakusi kungova nemuviri wakakura, kana mari yakawanda. Asi zvakare pamusoro pekugadzikana mupfungwa uye kukwanisa kubata nekuoma kwewanano.

Usanetseka zvakadaro, muwanano chinongoda rudo kuti zvinhu zvifambe (sezvavanogara vachitaura zvakanaka?) saka hapana chikonzero chekupfuura kufunga zvinhu, rudo Runokunda zvose! Kunze kwekuti inhema dzakakwana, muchato unoda zvakawanda, uye kunyangwe rudo rwuri chinhu chakakosha muwanano haruwanzoita kuti muchato uenderere mberi.

Yeuka kuti kuroorana hakusi kwese kwezuva uye kunakidza, dzimwe nguva munozonetsana dzimwe nguva hamuzodanane zvakanyanya, chii chichaitika ipapo? Muchakumbira kurambana here nekuti muchato hauchinakidze?

Ko kana paine vana vanobatanidzwa, zvino chii? Nyaya iripo ndeyekuti, zvigadzirire kuroora mundangariro. Verenga pamusoro pekodzero dzeMurume nekodzero dzeMukadzi, usangoroora nekuti uriwe 20 uye kunzwa kuti unofanira. Murume uyu angave Jannah yako kana Gehena, unonyatsoziva kuti zvinorevei?

Saizvozvo mukadzi uyu nevana vamangwana richava basa rako semurume, Allah vachakubvunza pamusoro pavo nezvose zvavanoita, saka gadzirira.

Zvitendei hama, kuroorana kunopfuura kungovatana uye kuvata pamubhedha. Zvinoshamisa ndinozviziva!

#2 UNGAZVIROORA HERE?
‘Chokwadi ndingadaro, Ndiri kutyisa kwakachena, Ndini chaiye defin…’ kana iriyo mhinduro yako saka ndinogona kukuudza izvozvi kuti hauna pfungwa dzakakwana dzekuroora. Kazhinji tinopofumadzwa nekutsvaga mudiwa wekupedzisira watinoregeredza kuzvitarisa pachedu.

Tinochema tichiti sei pasina munhu achandiroora? Asi usaita chinhu kuti tishandure isu. Unobata sei vanhu kana wagumbuka? Unoitei kana wakachengeta chigumbu? Usafuratira nyaya dzose dzinokosha idzi, asi muite chimwe nechimwe. Hapana akakwana asi hazvireve kuti hatifanirwe kunge tichiedza.

Kana iwe zvechokwadi uye nemoyo wese unoshanda pane zvaunokanganisa, uye nyatsoita kuva nehanya uye nerudo zvakanyanya ipapo iwe uchaona kuti vanhu vachakutarisa sei zvakasiyana. Vanhu vanozotanga kukuona se‘mudzimai’ zvinhu nekuti wakanaka nevana, nokuti une hanya nevamwe, nekuti unoregerera vanhu uye usachengeta zvigumbu usaita makuhwa etc list irefu asi ukaita one step at a time unoroorwa usati wazviziva..

Zvakanaka iwe unozviziva, 'nekuti ndinoreva kuti haugone kuroora usingazive nezvazvo, rudyi? Saka zvehunyanzvi waizoziva nezvazvo, asi hongu chero.

#1 DU'AA
Dua chombo chomutendi, wadii kuishandisa?

Nekuti chero chinhu muhupenyu, Allah ndiye chikonzero chechokwadi shure kwezvinhu. Kunyangwe vamwe vanhu vachiwanzotenderedza maziso uye kufunga kuti 'Hongu chembere, ita dua mukoma/hanzvadzi’ asi kana uine kutenda muna Allah zvechokwadi uye uchiziva kuti Vanopindura minamato yeavo vanoshaya, haufe wakaneta kuita du’aa kwaAri.

Tora nyaya yaMuusa alyhi salaam semuenzaniso, muSoorah Qasas tinoudzwa nezvekusiya kwaakaita Fir'awn uye kutiza chaiko kuti aponese hupenyu hwake., chimwe chaimunetsa kwaiva kuchengetedza ganda rake. Asi chii chakaitika? Akaita du’aa kuna Allaah, uye Allaah haana kungomuponesa chete asi akamuropafadza nemudzimai anoshamisa. Saka muchidimbu, kana ukaita du’aa uye ukasasiya Allah achakubatsira, uye ndicho chivimbiso!
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