A Kubudirira (Muslim) Mudzimai!

By Pure Matrimony - Chivabvu, 26th 2012

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28 Mazano Aunoda Kuve
A Kubudirira (Muslim) Mudzimai!
– Yusuf Estes

CHERECHEDZA kubva Yusuf Estes: Kuroorana muIslam kunofungidzirwa “Hafu yeDeen” (chikamu chakakosha chenzira yedu seMuslim).
Zvakadaro tiri kuona kukundikana muwanano zvakatikomberedza. Kurwisana kwemhuri kuri kuwedzera, vakadzi nevana vari kushungurudzwa uye mhuri zhinji dziri kuparara. Michato yakawanda zvikuru iri kuguma mukurambana kunyange pakati pemhuri dzinonamata zvikurusa, uye vaMuslim havana mutsauko.
Michato yakawanda iri kuparara mazuva ano, kunyange pakati pevanonamata zvikuru vemhuri, uye vaMuslim havana mutsauko.
Izvi zvinondishungurudza zvikuru uye ndinovimba nekuburitsa chinyorwa ichi pano pawebhusaiti yedu, tingasvika pakunzwisisana uye ukama huri nani nevatakaroorana navo, inshallah.

Heano mashoma matipi uye kumagumo ini ndiri kupa akati wandei masosi kune ruzivo uye kutevedzera.

1. Sisters & Hama Mazano aya ndeeVatendi – Murume & Mukadzi. Saka, mose muri vaviri, ita Du'a kuna Allah kuti imba yenyu nehukama hubudirire – Tese tinoziva, savatendi, zvinhu zvose zvakanaka zvinobva kuna Allah. Usambofa wakakanganwa kukumbira Allah chikomborero chekuva nemuchato unobudirira unotanga munyika ino uchienderera mberi - muParadhiso, inshallah.

2. Teerera uye uteerere – ALLAH! (uyezve mumwe nomumwe) – Mutemo wekutanga wekuteerera ndewa Allah, uyezve mukadzi kumurume (Chitsauko cheKorani 4, ndima 34). Kuteerera murume wako kunosungirwa! Ko murume wacho? Haafanire kuteerera?

Sisters: Murume wako ndiye Ameer (musoro) zvemumba. Mupe kodzero dzake uye rukudzo, uye Allah vachakupai kodzero dzenyu.

Hama: Mutemo wekutanga wekuteerera kwauri ndewe, mushure maAllah nemutumwa wavo, uyo ane kodzero dzakawanda? (Mai vako, mai vako, mai vako uyezve baba vako). Mushure mevabereki vako, WHO? Mukadzi wako (usaite kunge wanga usingazivi izvi).
Same surah, same dad – Verenga:

Quran (Surah An-Nisaa’ chitsauko 4, The Women, ndima 34):
Varume (varume) vane mutoro wevakadzi (vakadzi) nokuda kwezvakapiwa naAllah pamusoro pechimwe (mu zvinoreva kuita zvavanotaura) uye ivo (varume) spend (nokutivakadzi kuchengetedza) kubva paupfumi hwavo. Saka vakadzi vakarurama vanoteerera (ku Mwari), kurinda mukati (varume) kusavapo izvo Allah zvavanoda kuti vachengete. Asi kune avo (vakadzi) vamunoona kubva kwavari kuzvikudza nekuramba, vayambire; (kana vakaramba), kusiya mibhedha yavo; uye (pakupedzisira), tap (percuss) ivo. Asi kana vakabvumirana, musatsvaka chimwe chinhu chingavapikisa. Chokwadi, Allah vanogara vakasimudzirwa uye vakakura.

3. Ivai Vanofadza Kune Mumwe Nomumwe – Mushure mezvinofadza Allah, gara uchitsvaka kufadza mumwe wako, iyi ndiyo kiyi yako kuna Jennah.

Sisters: Muporofita Muhammad (rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake) akatidzidzisa kuti mukadzi chero upi zvake anofa achiita kuti murume wake afadzwe naye, achapinda muParadhiso. Saka, edza nepaunogona napo kuti umufadze (kunyange kana uchifunga kuti hazvina kukodzera – zvichiri kukosha)

Hama: Makaverenga here nzira yemuporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, akatarisana nemhuri yake? Muka! Unofanira kutevera nzira yake mukubatsira kubika, kuchenesa uye kutarisira zvipfeko zvako (akazviita, unogona kuzviitawo).

4. Usaita Hasha – Nharo moto mumba mako – dzima moto nekukurumidza sezvinobvira. Muporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, akadaro, “Usashatirwa! Usashatirwa! Usashatirwa!” Uye akatiudza kuti kutsamwa kunobva kuna dhiyabhorosi (dhiyabhorosi) uye shayton inomhanya nemuviri wako seropa rako kana watsamwa.

Sisters: Munotozivawo kuti varume vane dambudziko rekubvuma kuti vakanganisa. Saizvozvo, vamwe varume vanoramba kuzvitaura, uye izvi zvine njodzi kwavari, asiwo nokuda kwenyuwo. Chenjera kuti usamanikidza nyaya naye kana agumbuka. Mubate semwana waari kutevedzera. Chokwadi, ingozvitora nyore uye ugare wakadzikama. Allah vachakupa mubayiro uye inshallah, Allah vachatungamirira murume wako kudzoka pagwara.

Hama: Unoziva kuti hauna kukwana. Huya izvozvi, bvuma uye zvipere. Say, “Ndine urombo”. Iwe unogona kuve iwe wekudzima moto we shayton mumba mako ne nyore 'Ndine hurombo’ kunyange kana uchifunga kuti haisi mhosva yako.
Paunorwira, uri kungowedzera huni mumoto. Tarisa kuti kupopotedzana kunopera sei kana uchingotaura uchirevesa, “Tarisa, Ndine hurombo. Siyana nazvo.”

5. Say, “Ndatenda” kune mumwe wako nguva dzose nokuda kwezvinhu zvakanaka zvinoitwa zvakanaka.

Sisters: "Ndeipi yaive nguva pakati pekuvakwa kweKaaba nekuvaka Masjid Al Aqsa, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, akatidzidzisa; “Ani nani asingatende vanhu, haatende Allah“. Saka, ingoenderera mberi uchiti, “Thanks mudiwa” uye kunyange kuwedzera “Basa rakanaka” kana “Kuita zvakanaka”. Iyi ndiyo imwe yenzira dzakakosha. Rangarira kusaonga (zvinopesana) hunhu hwevanhu vemumoto wehero. Dai Allah vatiponesa kubva kune izvozvo, ameni.

Hama: Wakapedzisira kutaura rinhi, “Waita hako mudiwa” kumudzimai wako kuti achenese imba, kuwacha mbatya, ironing, kugeza vana, kuenda navo kuchikoro, kuvadzidzisa zvinhu? Unoti, “Asi anozviita zuva nezuva” — Uye ndiyo pfungwa! Ari kuita izvi zuva nezuva – Asi muripo uripi? Mupe chimwe chinhu chinoita kuti anzwe akakodzera, zvitaure!

6. Nakidzwa nemitambo, kutamba nekuseka nemumwe wako:

Sisters: Unogona kutamba majee pamurume wako, asi usanyepa kana kukuvadza manzwiro ake. Varume tsvagai tsvagai vakadzi vakareruka uye vane pfungwa yekuseka.

Hama: Muporofita wedu (rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake) akaudza Jabir, dai Allah vafadzwa naye, “Kuroora munhu anokuseka iwe womuseka”.

7. Pfeka kune mumwe nemumwe uye kutarisa kwakapinza. Islam inotikurudzira kutaridzika uye kuita zvatinogona pamberi pemunhu wese, kunyanya vadikani.

Sisters: Pfeka zvishongo zvakanaka uye kupfeka-up kumba kwemurume wako. Kubva pamakore ekutanga, vasikana vaduku vaizvishongedza nemhete nezvishongo uye vakapfeka zvipfeko zvakanaka - sezvinotsanangurwa muQur'an.. Somudzimai, unofanira kuramba uchishandisa zvishongo uye zvipfeko zvakanaka zvemurume wako.

Hama: Unofunga kuti masister chete anodiwa here “pfeka”? Ko muporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake? Akapfeka mbatya dzake dzakanakisa, akatoita chokwadi chekuwacha hembe dzake. Uye zvakadini nekunhuhwirira? Unoziva kukosha kwezvinonhuwira. Usambomurega achinhuwa dikita rako rinonhuwa. Anokunhuwirira, saka mupfekedze zvinonhuhwirira zvakanaka – unozviita paMosque, rudyi?

8. Ita sevanhu vomuParadhiso – Ita zvakarurama, funga zvakanaka uye tarisa zvakanaka (edza zano iri nhasi)

Sisters: Unoziva here nezvehunhu hwe Hoor Al-Ayn (vakadzi veparadhiso)? Islam inotsanangura vakadzi ava nemamwe maitiro. Vanopfeka silika, uve akanaka, maziso akasviba, etc. Heano mamwe mazano: Zviedze, pfekedza murume wako sirika, isa make-up yemaziso ako kuti ‘akure’, ugova wakanaka kumurume wako.

Hama:
Vakaroorana vako vachawanepi madhirezi akanaka esirika, lingerie inodenha, kunhuhwirira kwakanaka uye makeup? Korani inotiudza (Surah 4, ndima 34 – pamusoro) Iwe ndiwe une basa rekupa – saka enda nazvo wotanga kupa.

9. Paradzira “Rugare” pakati penyu. Izvi zviri muIslam zvechokwadi. Korani inotaura nezvazvo, nemuporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, akadaro, “Hamuzopindi muParadhiso kusvikira matenda uye hamuzotendi, kusvikira madanana. Ndokutungamirirai here nzira yekudanana? Kuparadzira “salams” (rugare) pakati penyu.” – zvakataurwa naAbu Hurairah

Sisters: Kana mumwe wako auya kumba, kupa mumwe nemumwe kwaziso inoshamisa yemuMuslim – “Salam alaykum wa Rahmatullah wa Barakatahu” Rugare, Makomborero uye tsitsi dzaAllah ngadzive kwamuri, (uye yeuka kunyemwerera).

Hama: Iwe ipa “salams” kune wese waunoona, kunyangwe hama dzamuchangosangana nazvo. Saizvozvo, unongwarira kupa chero munhu wauchangobva kusangana naye masalams akanaka – rudyi? Ko mukadzi wako? Mai vevana vako? Uyo ari kuita dua kwauri zuva nezuva nehusiku? Unomupa masaramu akakodzera here, paunofanira? Ndichipinda nekubuda mumba? Paunopinda kana kubuda mumba?

10. Smile – Hapana mari uye inotenga zvese! Ndiani anogona kuramba akanaka, hombe, kufara kunyemwerera? Zvinotoita kuti ndinyemwerere mufunge.

Sisters: Muporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, akatidzidzisa; Kunyemwerera pachiso chehama yedu muMuslim chiito cherudo. Saka unogona kuchengetedza rugare mumhuri yako, ita kunzwa kutapira mumba mako, kuwana mubayiro naAllah uye pamwe kunyange kunyemwerera kwakanaka kumashure.
Funga kuti murume wako aizonzwa sei kana akapinda akawana musha wako wakanaka wakachena, mukadzi wake airatidza kupfeka zvakanaka uye akamushongedza, chisvusvuro chakanaka chakagadzirirwa nehanya, vana vakamuchenesa uye vachimugamuchira kumba. Zvinobatsira chaizvo, kunyange asina kudaro.

Hama: Wakapedzisira rinhi kusekerera mukadzi wako? Ungayeuka here nguva yawakapedzisira kuuya nemaruva kumba, chocolates, chipo chidiki (hapana chakaipa nezvishongo zvakanaka hama)?

11. Basa! Ndizvozvo, une mabasa emhuri. Enda kubasa imba yako, vana vako, mabasa ako kumudzimai wako nemhuri.

Sisters: Tarisa zvakakupoteredza. Ko iyo stack yembatya ndeyei? Ko sei mukitchen mazara kuzara? Imba yekurara inoita kunge munhu akararamo? (wakaita) Mukoridho unotaridzika seimba yekuchengetera. Kanganwa imba yekuwachira. Aihwa, TV haikuda iwe – imba inoda iwe.

Hama: Ko kukweretesa ruoko kune zvinhu zvakaoma? Wadii kutora nguva yekuchenesa imba yekugezera kana yepasi kana yedenga remba? Unoziva, nzvimbo dzakaoma kusvika uye nzvimbo dzine mhungu, tupukanana nezvipembenene zvinounganidza? Ko izvi zvingaite sei pakuda kwake iwe? Zvino fungidzira kuti chii kana iwe ukangoputika musuo, vachidanidzira mirairo, kunyunyuta pamusoro pezuva rako rakaoma kubasa uye usatombocherechedza kuti anofanirwa kuita zvakawanda sei zuva rega rega.

12. Kukwezva – Allah vanotiudza muKorani, Akaita murume mumwe chete uye akatanga mukadzi kubva kwaari uye akaita vanhu vose kubva kwavari. Unoziva kuti zvinoshanda sei. Charm ndiyo kiyi yekukwezva. Mutsa uye kunzwisisa ndiwo makiyi ekukwezva. Saka, ivai nemoyo munyoro mumwe kune mumwe uye mushandise kukwezva kwenyu kuunza mwoyo yenyu pamwe chete.

Sisters: Shandisa yako 'Zina' kuti utore mwoyo wemurume wako. Mukadzi wese ane Zvikomborero kubva kuna Allah, kusanganisira iyo “runako” uye “zvishongo” zvinokwezva varume. Asi zvino unotozviziva, usadaro iwe?
OK – Saka SHANDISA.
Bvudzi rako, maziso ako, kunyemwerera kwako (ataurwa pamusoro apa, rangarira) uye zvipfeko zvako (uye mapfekero aunoita), zvese izvi zvinogona kushanda pamwechete kubatsira kuburitsa murume waunoda chaizvo. Iwe unoziva zvaanoda uye unowana zvese “fuzzy” mumusoro. Enda zvakananga kumoyo.

Hama: Haana kuroorwa nembatatisi yemubhedha. Arikutsvaga mukomana uya akanaka wawaive paakabvuma kuroora. Mukomana uya aripi? Hembe dzakanaka, shangu dzinopenya, kunhuhwirira kwakachena, mashoko manyoro, unoziva – (zvawanga uri).

 

OK – Tevere tinoona mazano masere pamusoro pezvinonetesa muchato uye mazano masere ekusimbisa wanano.

8 Zvinhu Zvinokanganisa Wanano:

1) Kusazvibata – kutaura zvinhu zvakaipa kana zvinovenga, kuita majee akaipa nokunyombana.

2) Ignore – handina kupindura kuna “salams” kana kupa mumwe nomumwe nzeve yakanaka yokuteerera nokugoverana.

3) Kunyepa – Allah vanorambidza vatendi kureva nhema. MuIslam hamuna nzvimbo yevanonyepa, uye dai Allah vatiponesa kubva kune zvakaipa izvi, ameni.

4) Kuputsa Zvivimbiso – Kuchengeta trust chinhu chakakoshawo chemutendi.

5) Kunzvenga Kuonana – Unombundikira hama kumosque, asi ko a “kukumbundira kudiki” nemukadzi wako? Handeyi nazvo, unogona kuzviita.

6) kumiswa & Kunyomba – Allah vanoti, “Imi vatendi, dzivisa kunyumwa kukuru. Zvirokwazvo kufungira chitadzo. Uye musasora kana kunyombana. Ani naani wenyu angada kudya nyama yomukoma wake akafa. Waizozvivenga. Ityai chirango chaAllah. Zvirokwazvo Allah ndivo Mugamuchiri wekutendeuka, Vane Ngoni.” [Quran 49: 12]

7) Kunyanya Kubatikana – Torai nguva yemumwe nemumwe. Mune kodzero kune mumwe nemumwe. Ipa munhu wese kodzero yake uye iwe uchapihwa kodzero dzako.

8) Kusiya kunamata – Allah havambofadzwi nemunhu anosiya gwara ravo uye asingavanamate. Izvi zvichakonzera mhuri dzeMuslim matambudziko akakomba uye kunyange kuparadzana, nekukurumidza kupfuura chero chinhu.

8 Zvinhu Zvinosimbisa Wanano:

1) Mafungiro Akanaka – MuMuslim anofanira kugara aine mafungiro akanaka kune hupenyu. Tinodaro, “Al Hamdulillah” (Rumbidzo ngaive kuna Allah) nokuda kwezvose zvaanotipa (kana kuti haatipi).

2) Help – Muporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, vakasimbisa kukosha kwevarume kubatsira vakadzi vavo uye Allah vanotiudza kukosha kwevakadzi kuve varoora uye vabatsiri kuvarume vavo.. Ichi ichokwadi “kukunda-kukunda” mamiriro ezvinhu, kana tikangoitevera chete.

3) Vimba – akataura mubairo mukuru kune munhu anopfeka ehraam kubva kuBait al-Makdis asati aenda kuKaaba kunotora paradhiso yake., varume nevakadzi vanorairwa kuti vave vakavimbika uye vatevedzere muenzaniso wemuporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, se “Kuvimbika”.

4) Respect – Unowana rukudzo, kana uchipa rukudzo. Izvi zvinosungirwa kune vese maMuslim kuvanhu vese, ndoda kune wawakaroorana naye?

5) Joy – Muporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, aimbovaraidza mukadzi wake, Ayesha uye aimbotamba nekumhanya naye. Akati, “Ndaiwanzomupfuura, asi pandakazoremerwa aipota achindikurira”. Akati titambe nevakadzi vedu.

6) Kukanganwira – Zvakajeka, Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosha zveIslam. Uyo asingakanganwiri – hazvizoregererwi. Izvi zvinobva kuna Allah, Iye pachake. Tinofanira kudzidza kukanganwira zvikanganiso zvemumwe nemumwe kuti tisazotiitira zvakaipa.

7) Nguva – Shandisa nguva, ndega – pamwe chete. Enda kunofamba. Tora bhazi. Shanyira shamwari kana mumwe munhu ari kurwara (unowana mibairo mikuru nokuda kwaizvozvo). Kutsanya pamwe chete neMuvhuro & China kana uchikwanisa. Ita hajj – iyi inzira yakanaka yekuwana a “kutanga kutsva” paupenyu. Vimba neni.

8) Kunamata – kubatana naAllah kuburikidza netsika yekunyengetera, chikumbiro nerunyararo uchifamba pamwe chete musalat chimwe chinhu icho asiri muMuslim haambofa akatenda. Muporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, aimbotungamira mukadzi wake musalat, kunyangwe aigara akabatana nemusikiti. Akatiudza kuti tisaite dzimba dzedu semakuva. Tinofanira kuita mimwe minamato yedu yesunnah kumba. Hanzvadzi inowana mibayiro yakawanda kwazvo pamba, mumba make, kuseri kwechidzitiro.

Hama & Sisters – Allah anotiudza zvekuita nezvinetso zvatisingakwanisi kugadzirisa. Iri mundima inotevera mushure meiri pamusoro, muSurah An-Nisaa'. Verenga…

Uye kana muchitya kurwisana pakati pevaviri (vakaroorana), gadza mutongi gava kubva kumhuri yake uye mutongi gava kubva kumhuri yake. Kana vari vaviri vachida kuyanana, Allah vachazviisa pakati pavo. Chokwadi, Allah vanogara vachiziva uye vanoziva [nezvinhu zvose].
Quran Chapter 4, ndima 35

Zvazvinoreva pano zvakanyatsojeka kwandiri – USAPARADZANA – INGOMUKA! & WANA RUBATSIRO!

Zviripachena kuti shayton anoda kuti muparadzane, pwanya ndiro, pwanya midziyo, paradza ukama, paradza mhuri, paradza ramangwana revana…

Asi usazviita. Tevedzera zvatinoudzwa naAllah uye funga izvo muporofita wedu, rugare ngaruve pamusoro pake, akatiratidza noupenyu hwake. Ko akarasa hukama nemukadzi wake? (Aihwa); Akamuramba here mukadzi wake? (Aihwa); Akapopotera mukadzi wake here? (Aihwa); Akamborova mukadzi wake here? (Aihwa); Aifungira here kana kupomera mukadzi wake zvakaipa, vanhu pavakauya nenyaya dzakaipa pamusoro pake? (Aihwa).
Asi, aiva nemoyo murefu here mukadzi wake paakamutamba? (Ehe). [Verenga nezve “uchi” muSurah At-Tahreem, chitsauko 66]

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