[Podcast] Kubata Nekusavimbika Kwepfungwa

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By Pure Matrimony - Mbudzi, 19th 2017

Munhu wese anoziva kuti Marital affairs are haram – asi zvakadini nenyaya dzepfungwa? Unoitei kana mumwe wako achidyara mari mune mumwe munhu panzvimbo pako?

Unozvidzivirira sei kuti zvisaitike, kubatana naSista Arfa uye pamwe hanzvadzi Fathima Farooqi pavanenge vachikurukura kuti sei nyaya dzemupfungwa dzichinyanya kuwanda kupfuura zvaunofunga uye nei dzichikuvadza kupfuura zvemuviri. nzvimbo yekutanga?

Kuita Nekusavimbika Kwepfungwa

Kutamba – Pure Matrimony Jingles

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Hurukuro inotanga

Arfa: Bismillah! Assalamu Alaikum (wrb) uye tinokugamuchirai kuchirongwa chemhuri. Ndini tenzi wenyu. Arfa Saira Iqbal, Head of Pure Matrimony and joining me nhasi ndiSis. Fathima Farooqi. Ndiye mubatsiri wangu uye Insha Allah, tichange tichibata nyaya yeEmotional Infidelity. Iyi inyaya hombe uye ndinofunga kunyanya munyika yechiMuslim handinzwe kuti yakafukidzwa zvakakwana. Saka, ngatitange nehurukuro Insha Allah, Assalamu Alaikum (wrb) Sis. Fathima.

Fathima: Wa Alaikkum Salaam (wrb) Sis. Arfa. Makadii?

Arfa: WL! Ndiri chaizvo, chaizvo rudzi rwekutya uye kufara kuvhara nyaya iyi nekuti ini ndinofunga kuti ichi chimwe chinhu icho vanhu vazhinji vanoda kutaura nezvazvo.. Asi zvinoita sekunge isu hatizeze kubata nyaya yacho. Saka, Ndinofunga kuti iyi yakanaka chaizvo. Uye ini ndinonzwa kuti vanhu vanofanirwa kuziva njodzi dzayo.

Fathima: Ehe! Ndizvozvo, Sis. Arfa. Uyezve, Ndinofunga kuti iyi ndeimwe mhando yeizvi, tsvina zvidiki zvakavanzika vanhu havadi kutaura nezvazvo kana kuteerera nezvazvo, asi ipapo, vanofanira kuziva kuti ichi chii uye kuti izvi zvinogona kuva nemigumisiro yakaita sei paupenyu hwemhuri yavo nezvose zviri pavari somunhu.. Saka, chii chaizvo chinonzi Emotional Infidelity, Sis. Arfa?

Arfa: Emotional Kusavimbika kwakanyatso kuunganidzwa kuve nehukama nemumwe munhu wechikadzi unofanirwa kunge uinavo nemumwe wako.. Chikonzero nei iri gungano rekusavimbika kwepamoyo imhaka yekuti hausi hukama hwenyama nemumwe munhu asi unenge uine hukama hwepamoyo naye..

Saka, kana une murume nomukadzi, Semuyenzaniso, murume, Semuyenzaniso, haagarisane nemukadzi wake chero chikonzero, anganzwa kuti haakwanisi kutaura naye, ipapo anozoenderera mberi otanga kutaura kune mumwe mukadzi waanoshanda naye uye otanga kumurevera paari uye usati waziva kuti zvinopera murudo., kunyange kana vasiri panyama chinhu uye zvose manzwiro uye, manzwiro akaoma zvikuru kubvisa izvozvo kubva mumusoro mako. Nekuti unogona kugara nemunhu kwemakore akawanda asi kana pasina hukama hwemoyo haunzwi kuti uri murudo naye uye unogona kuramba uchigara naye pasina munhu iyeye ane hukama hwenyama..

Asi hazvisi zvakafanana, nepo kana uine mumwe munhu waunoshamwaridzana naye, kunyange zvazvo murume wacho aisazova chinhu chenyama, munhu iyeye akanyanya kuomerwa negumi kuregedza nekuti waisa mari mukati mavo uye nemumwe munhu semuenzaniso, wakaroora uye unongova nehukama ihwohwo hwenyama so, zvakanyanya (inodzokorora) nyaya yakaoma kubata nayo nekuti unenge uchibata nyaya dzemoyo, Mwari ngavakudzwe, Kana iwe uchifanira kuona chero munhu zvachose, yakaoma zvikuru. Ehe...

Fathima: Ehe! Ndinofunga kuti zvichanyatso rwadza pazvichabuda (kumbomira) zvakaipa. Saka, sei uye nei zvichiitika, Sis. Arfa?

Arfa: Saka, kapfumbamwe kubva mugumi, chikonzero chikuru chandakaona kazhinji ndechekuti havana kuisa mari yakakwana muhukama hwavo nemumwe uye ndiyo nzira yekunzwisisa kuti uswa hunogara hwakasvibira kune rumwe rutivi izvo zvisiri izvo.. Uye, chikonzero chekutanga chandinowana ndechekuti murume nemukadzi havana kutora nguva yekusimbisa hukama hwavo, handina kutora nguva kuisa mariri. Kungoti wakaroora hazvireve kuti uchapenga murudo nemumwe wako, chinhu chinoda kushanda nguva dzose.

Asi, taita huori manje, uko munhu wese ari kubatikana sekuwana mari chaiko, kuedza.. munoziva kuisa chingwa patafura, zvakawanda zviri kuitika uye zvakawanda zvinotsausa, zviri nyore kurasikirwa nezvaunazvo wobva wafunga, “Oh! Ndinonzwa ndisina hukama newawakaroorana naye uye handina hukama naye mupfungwa". Uye ipapo tanga kutsvaga icho chinodiwa chepfungwa kune imwe nzvimbo. Nokuti, Mwari (SWT) akatisika tiine mwoyo, uye saizvozvo, takasikwa tiine chido chokuzvarwa nacho chekuda kukosheswa mupfungwa nekudiwa nekuremekedzwa uye kubatana nemumwe munhu. Ndosaka vachidaidza kuti Soulmate ine Soulmate.

Asi dambudziko riripo, kana iwe uchidyara nguva ino nemumwe munhu pane kuisa mari kune mumwe wako ndipo panoitika matambudziko uye zvinosiririsa nekuti ini ndinonzwa kuti mukati 90% zvemakesi ndizvo 100 % kudzivirirwa zvachose, unogona kudzivirira izvozvo kuti zvisaitike, nekungopedza nguva yakawanda newawakaroorana naye.

Fathima: Ndizvozvo, Sis. Arfa! Mubvunzo mukuru ndewekuti kana iwe usiri kuita zvenyama, ichiri Haraam here?

Arfa: Zvirokwazvo, zvirokwazvo. Pfungwa iri pano ndeyekuti kana iwe uine pfungwa nemumwe munhu mumusoro medu, uri chaizvo; uri kuhura navo mugotsi mako, chingasava chinhu chenyama. Kune hadeeth, Muporofita SAWS vakati chinosvitsa muharaam iharaam…