Anoda kuroora musikana waaidanana naye

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Anoda kuroora musikana waaidanana naye. Ndinovimba munogona kundibatsira sezvo ndiri mudambudziko guru. Ndaiziva mumwe musikana anoshanda kure nekwaanogara. Kwemakore maviri takanga tichidanana, tainge tichisangana tichiita Zina (upombwe), takabvumirana kuroorana nekuti handimukanganwe, uye haakwanisi kundikanganwawo. Sezvo aindiziva akatanga kunamata uye akachinja zvakanyanya. Allah vanoziva kuti ndinomuda zvakadini. Unondipa zano here kuti ndimuroore? Ndiri kutambura.

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Rumbidzo ngaive kuna Allaah.

Chekutanga:

Usati wapindura mubvunzo wako, tinofanira kukuyeuchidza kuti zvinosungirwa kupfidza uye kuzvidemba zvawakaita nemukadzi uyu, nokuti wakawira muzvivi zvikuru zvakawanda, yakanyanya kuoma idzo zina (ufeve) izvo zvinorambidzwa zvakajeka muQur-aan neSunnah, uye vadzidzi vanobvumirana nemoyo wese kuti i haraam, uye vanhu vakachenjera vanobvumirana kuti zvinonyangadza uye zvakaipa.

Allah anoti (dudziro yezvinoreva):

“Uye usaswedera pakusangana pabonde kusiri pamutemo. Chokwadi, ndiye Faaishah (i.e. chinhu chipi nechipi chinodarika miganhu yacho: chivi chikuru), uye nzira yakaipa inoendesa munhu kugehena kunze kwekunge Allah vamuregerera)”

[al-Isra' 17:32]

Uye Muporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari) akadaro: “Hakuna mhombwe mutendi panguva yaanenge achiita upombwe.” Zvakataurwa naAl-Bukhaariy (2475) uye Muslim (57).

MuAl-Barzakh mune chirango chakaomarara, tisati tarangwa muUpenyu. MuHadeeth yakakurumbira yaSamurah ibn Jundub (dai Allah vafadzwa naye) nezvehope, inoti:

“… zvino isu [i.e., Muporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari) naJibherieri, naMikaeri] akaenderera mberi akasvika kune chinhu chakaita senge tannoor (rudzi rwehovhoni), umo maiva nemanzwi okupopota.” Iye [Muporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari)] akadaro: “Takatarisa mukati maro tikaona varume nevakadzi vasina kupfeka. Marimi omoto aiuya kwavari kubva pasi pawo, uye murazvo pawakasvika kwavari, vakaita mheremhere. Ndakati kwavari [i.e., ngirozi mbiri dzakanga dzichimuperekedza], ‘Ndivanaani ava?' … Vakati, ‘Tichakuudzai. Kana vari varume nevakadzi vakashama muchimiro chakaita sechoto chetannoor, ivo mhombwe nezvifeve.’”

Zvakataurwa naAl-Bukhaariy (6640).

Allah akagadza murango we hadd we zina. Anoti maererano nehadd punishment kumunhu asina kuroora (dudziro yezvinoreva):

“Mhombwe nechifeve, rovai mumwe nomumwe wavo neshamhu dzine zana. tsitsi ngadzirege kukudzivisa pamhaka yavo, muchirango chakatemwa naAllah, kana uchitenda muna Allah uye nezuva rekupedzisira. Uye rimwe boka revatendi ngarione kurangwa kwavo”

[al-Noor 24:2]

Kana ari munhu akamboroorwa, chirango che hadd kuuraya, MuHadeeth yakataurwa naImam Muslim muSaheeh yake (3199) zvinorondedzerwa kuti Muporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari) akadaro: “Kumunhu akamboroora kana kuroorwa nemunhu akamboroora, [chirango chiri] shamhu zana nokutaka namabwe.

Zvatataura kwauri zvinoshandawo kumukadzi wacho, uye anofanira kuziva kuti chivi chake chakatonyanya kuipa, asi nokuti, sezvamunotaura, raruramiswa, tinotarisira kuti kutendeuka kwake ndekwechokwadi uye kuti Allah vachamuregerera nenyasha dzavo netsitsi dzavo.

Chechipiri:

Unofanira kucherechedza kuti kana mese musina kutendeuka kubva muchivi chezina, saka hazvitenderwi kuti umuroore, nokuti Allah vakarambidza madhaani neZaaniyah kuroora kunze kwekunge vose vatendeuka. Allah anoti (dudziro yezvinoreva):

“Mhombwe—mhombwe haaroorwi asi mhombwe—mhombwe kana Mushrikah.; uye mhombwe ndiyo mhombwe, hapana anomuroora kunze kwemhombwe - mhombwe kana Mushrik [uye zvinoreva kuti murume anobvuma kuroora (kuita bonde naye) a Mushrikah (munhukadzi anonamata vanamwari vakawanda, muhedheni kana kuti anonamata zvidhori) kana chifeve, ipapo zvirokwazvo, kana ari mhombwe - mhombwe, kana Mushrik (anotenda vamwari vakawanda, muhedheni kana kuti munamati wezvidhori). Uye mukadzi anobvuma kuroorwa (kuita bonde naye) a Mushrik (anotenda vamwari vakawanda, muhedheni kana kuti munamati wezvidhori) kana mhombwe — mhombwe, zvino chifeve kana Mushrikah (munhukadzi anonamata vanamwari vakawanda, vahedheni, kana kuti munamati wezvidhori)]. Chinhu chakadaro chakarambidzwa kuvatendi (yeIslam Monotheism)”

[al-Noor 24:3]

Shaykh ‘Abd al-Rahmaan al-Sa’di (dai Allaah vamunzwira tsitsi) akadaro:

Izvi zvinonyatsoratidza kunyangadza kwehunhu hwezina, uye izvozvo zvinosvibisa kukudzwa kwouyo anozviita nenzira isingatengwi nezvimwe zvivi. Allaah anotiudza kuti hakuna mukadzi anoroora zaani asi mukadzi ari zaaniyah zvakare, ndiani akafanana naye, kana mukadzi wechimushrik anosanganisa vamwe naAllah uye asingatendi mukumutswa kwevakafa kana mubairo nekurangwa. (muKuzotevera), uye uyo asingabatiri kumirairo yaAllah. Uye zvakafanana, hapana aizoroora zaaniyah kunze kwezaani kana mushrik. “Chinhu chakadaro chakarambidzwa kuvatendi” zvinoreva, iHaramu kwavari kuti varoore mazaanis kana mazaaniyah.

Zvinorehwa nevhesi ndezvokuti kana munhu achida kuroora murume kana mukadzi anenge aita zino uye asina kutendeuka kubva pazviri., zvisinei nekuti Allah akazvirambidza, ipapo anenge asiri kunamatira kumutongo waAllah nemutumwa wake, apa haagone kuva chimwe chinhu kunze kwemushrik, kana kuti ari kunamatira mutongo waAllah nemutumwa wake asi anobvuma muchato uyu zvisinei nekuziva kuti munhu uyu aita zina., apa muchato uyu ndoo zina, uye i zaani nzenza. Kana aitenda muna Allah zvechokwadi, akanga asingadi kuita izvozvo. Izvi zvinoratidza pachena kuti i haraam kuroora zaaniyah kunze kwekunge atendeuka, kana kuroora zaani kunze kwekunge atendeuka, nokuti roorano rudzi rwakasimba zvikuru rwoushamwaridzani, uye Allah vanoti (dudziro yezvinoreva): “Unganidzai avo vakaita zvakaipa, pamwe chete neshamwari dzavo” [al-Saaffaat 37:22]. Allah vakazvirambidza nekuda kwezvinosanganisirwa nehuipi hukuru, uye kushayikwa kwegodo rokudzivirira, uye kupa vana vasiri vake kumurume, uye zaani achitadza kumuchengeta akachena nokuti anotsauswa kumwewo, chero chimwe chazvo chiri chikonzero chakakwana chekurambidzwa. End quote.

Tafseer al-Sa'di (p. 561).

Nyanzvi dzeDare Rinomirira dzakabvunzwa:

Murume akaita zvekuhura nemhandara achida kumuroora. Zvinotenderwa here kuti aite izvozvo?

Vakapindura:

Kana nyaya yacho sezvakatsanangurwa, mumwe nemumwe wavo anofanira kutendeuka kuna Allaah uye osiya chitadzo ichi, uye kuzvidemba zvakaitika nezviito zvounzenza, uye tsunga kusazviita zvakare, uye kuita mabasa mazhinji akanaka, netariro yokuti Allah vachagamuchira kutendeuka kwavo uye voshandura mabasa avo akaipa kuva akanaka. Allah anoti (dudziro yezvinoreva):

“Uye avo vasinganamati chero imwe ilaah (mwari) pamwe naAllah, kana kuuraya munhu akadai sezvakarambidzwa naAllah, kunze kwechikonzero chakanaka, kana kuita bonde zvisiri pamutemo ___ uye ani nani anoita izvi achawana chirango.

69. marwadzo achawedzerwa kwaari pazuva rekumutswa, uye achagara imomo achinyadziswa;

70. Kunze kweavo vanotendeuka vakatenda (muIslamic Monotheism), uye muite mabasa akarurama; kune avo, Allah vachashandura zvitadzo zvavo kuita mabasa akanaka, uye Allah vanoregerera, Ane Ngoni

71. Uye ani nani anotendeuka uye akaita mabasa akanaka; ipapo zvirokwazvo, anotendeuka kuna Allah nekutendeuka kwechokwadi”

[al-Furqan 25:68-70]

Kana achida kumuroora, ipapo anofanira kumirira kumwedzi kumwe chete kuti aone kana chibereko chake chisina munhu asati aita chibvumirano cheroorano naye. Kana zvikaonekwa kuti ane mimba, zvino hazvitenderwi kuti murume aroore naye kusvikira asununguka, maererano neHadeeth iyo Muporofita ari mairi (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari) akarambidza munhu kudiridza goho remumwe nemvura yake. End quote.

Fatawa Islamiyyah (3/247).

Saka tendeukai kuna Allah uye mugadzirise zvinhu zvenyu, uye kuita mabasa mazhinji akanaka, uye shure kwaizvozvo zvichatenderwa kuti muroore. Tinokumbira Allah kuti agamuchire kutendeuka kwako uye kuti akuregererei, nenyasha netsitsi Dzake.

Source: Islam Q&A

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18 Comments to Anoda kuroora musikana waaidanana naye

  1. Murangariro wemurume akaroora akatadza chii. Ndiani akarara nemumwe kunze kwemukadzi wake. Mumwe mukadzi haana kuroorwa.

    • Kuuraya, sezvarinotaura pamusoro.
      “Kana ari munhu akamboroorwa, chirango che hadd kuuraya, MuHadeeth yakataurwa naImam Muslim muSaheeh yake (3199) zvinorondedzerwa kuti Muporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari) akadaro: “Kumunhu akamboroora kana kuroorwa nemunhu akamboroora, [chirango chiri] shamhu zana nokutaka namabwe. “

    • Zviripachena kuti hapana nyika inoenderana neSharia, asi kana uchireurura zvivi zvako, kana kuti zvapupu zvina zvirume zvichapupurira chiitiko chacho. Zvadaro kutemwa nematombo kusvika pakufa.
      Izvi hazvisi kuzoitika muzuva ranhasi. Saka chinhu chakanakisa kuita kutendeuka kuna Allah, gadzira matavi akawanda, uye GARA kure kure nefitna yemukadzi chero upi zvake. Uye ita zvose zvakanaka nezviito kumudzimai wako.

      Kana taita chitadzo chikuru Fahsha tinofanira kutendeuka uye zvakare kutsiva chakaipa nekuita chakanaka.. Wedzera mabasa erudo, wedzera mabasa okururama, mumire kunyengetera pakati pousiku. etc etc ita chijairira. hapana kana imwe chete. Iwe unofanirwa kuchengetedza zviito zvakanaka izvi.

  2. this is bad i mean very bad.its against islamism and the teachings of the holy prophet.u see part of me dont blame u.its really tempting.this attraction one get with different person apart from ur partner.but my opinion is to tell ur wife cus she is the only one who can forgive you.uye namata pamusoro pazvo am sure kana akakuregerera allah vachakuregererawo.Mwari vatibatsire tose.

  3. Hama inodiwa,

    Kutanga iharamu kuita hupombwe/zina muIslam. And I have been in a same situation ndomboita zina (astagfirllah). Asi Al7amdulillah ndasiya izvozvi uye zano rangu kwauri nderekuti chirega zvauri kuita. Ndinoziva kuti zvakaoma asi zviri nani kuruma mazino uchitambura iyezvino muhupenyu huno pane kufananidzwa nekurangwa kuKuzotevera..

    Kana muchidanana zvechokwadi regai zvamuri kuita uye tendeukai kuMusiki ane simba rose nekuti tsitsi dzaAllah dzinorema hasha dzake.. Ita vimbiso kwauri yekusamubata kwenguva yakareba uye edza nepaunogona napo kuti unamate minamato yese mishanu.. Ita mabasa akanaka/Sadaqah kunyange kunyemwerera, Kukwazisa hama yako yaunoziva kana yausingazive ibasa rakanaka. Teerera vabereki vako, verenga Korani uye gara uchifunga nezva Allah. Tevedzera Sunnah kune kugona kwako uye edza zvakanyanya. Mazano ese aya haagone kuitwa mukati mezuva rimwe chete asi nekuita zvemazuva ese uye kugadzikana Inshallah zvivi zvako zvicharegererwa uye unogona kuzvivandudza..

    Gara uchiyeuka kuti Shaitan ndiye muvengi wako akavhurika uye achaita chero zvingatora kuti akubvise kubva munzira kwayo. Varume vakasikwa vasina simba saka kana ukanzwa uchirasa chimbomira, tora miniti, uye nekufema kwakadzika rangarira zvese zvakanaka zvawakaropafadzwa nazvo uti Alhamdulillah 100 nguva. Zvinoshanda kwandiri uye ndinonzvenga zvivi nenzira iyi. Nzira yakanaka yandinoshandisa kudzivirira zvivi ndeyekuteerera uye nekunamata minamato yese mishanu. Ndizvozvo hapana yakakosha formula. Ingoedza kunamata minamato yese mishanu kubva kuFajr kuenda kuIshaa uye uchanzwa mutsauko.

    Be strong brother and dont give up. Kana mese makapfidza chokwadi morega kuita Zina and serious yekuroora then Inshallah ngazvive zvakadaro. Ndinokushuvirai rombo rakanaka.

    • MashAllah,SubhanAllah izano rinokatyamadza kudaro ndaitarisira chaizvo zano rakadaro asi ndaizeza kubvunza chero munhu…JazakAllah

      • Ndafara nekubatsira sisi Maryam uye kutaura chokwadi im only 23 asi ndinonzwika semudhara. Asi munoziva Alhamdulillah Allah vakandiropafadza nechikomborero chimwe chandinoona sechikuru pane zvose zvinova ruzivo rwangu. Mangwana ndinogona kurasikirwa nezvose zvangu imba yangu, basa rangu, account yangu yekubhangi nezvimwe asi chikomborero changu cheruzivo chinogara chineni.

  4. Masha Allah…mukoma Omer vakapa zano rakanaka kudaro. Kugara kuMadokero, varume vechiMuslim vakatarisana nemuedzo uyu wekugara uye kushanda nevakadzi vakanaka kwete hazvo muslim uye vakabatwa mumamiriro ezvinhu aya.. Vanonzwa kuti nekuzadzisa Nikkah varuramisa kukanganisa kwekuita zina. Zvinoshungurudza madzimai zvakanyanya pavanoona kuti varume vavo vawira mumamiriro ezvinhu aya uye zvinotora dambudziko pawanano nevana.. Dai Allah vatibatsira tose kubva mukuita zina. Vakadzi kakawanda kana vachida varume vavo vanofanira kudzidza kurarama nemamiriro ezvinhu uye kunyengetera kuti Allah avabatsire kukanganwira varume vavo kuitira kuti vagone kuenderera mberi nokuda kwemhuri.. Dai Aallah vaita kuti zvive nyore kune vakadzi vakawanda vakazviwana vari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya. Ameen.

  5. Asalam o alykum

    Ndinoziva vaviri vakaita zina uye mushure memakore vakaroorana vakakomborerwa nevana vaviri
    Asi mushure 9 years now murume wake achidanana nemumwe musikana thier marriage life totaly apedza vana vake vachitamburawo .mkomana akaudza mukadzi wake after 9 years that I dont love u I marry u just becuz ndakarara newe manje ndoda Kuroora musikana iyeye ..mukadzi wake anomuda zvakanyanya anomurova even apa anoda kugara naye. anoita salha she fast .

  6. tafsir chaiyo yevhesi remhombwe nemhombwe ndeiyi- nikaah mundima zvinoreva kushamwaridzana, sezvo zvichigona kurevawo muchato muchiarabic. ndinonamata kuti Allah atidzivirire kubva kuchivi ichi-Zina.

  7. assalam o alaikum warahmatuLLAH.. ndinotenda mhinduro yakadzama yehutongi kune inobvunza mibvunzo. ndichangotanga kuverenga mhinduro.. pfungwa yekutanga yakapinda mupfungwa dzangu mushure mekuverenga refrence ye hadith *********(MuAl-Barzakh mune chirango chakaomarara, tisati tarangwa muUpenyu. MuHadeeth yakakurumbira yaSamurah ibn Jundub (dai Allah vafadzwa naye) nezvehope, inoti:

    “… zvino isu [i.e., Muporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari) naJibherieri, naMikaeri] akaenderera mberi akasvika kune chinhu chakaita senge tannoor (rudzi rwehovhoni), umo maiva nemanzwi okupopota.” Iye [Muporofita (rugare nemaropafadzo aAllah ngaive kwaari)] akadaro: “Takatarisa mukati maro tikaona varume nevakadzi vasina kupfeka. Marimi omoto aiuya kwavari kubva pasi pawo, uye murazvo pawakasvika kwavari, vakaita mheremhere. Ndakati kwavari [i.e., ngirozi mbiri dzakanga dzichimuperekedza], ‘Ndivanaani ava?' … Vakati, ‘Tichakuudzai. Kana vari varume nevakadzi vakashama muchimiro chakaita sechoto chetannoor, ivo mhombwe nezvifeve.’”

    Zvakataurwa naAl-Bukhaariy (6640).)********************************

    zvese zvakacherechedzwa naProphet Rugare Ngaruve KwaAri “SHAB E MAIRAJ” .. haina kucherechedzwa mumamiriro ekurota, asi chaizvoizvo.. nekuti kana kwaiva kurota, ALLAH SWT vakanga vazvitsanangura muQur’an Pak. nepo muKorani panotaurwa kuti Iye (PBUH) akazviona yakamutsa mamiriro, uye kwete mukurota.

  8. Ehe kuroora kwakaoma mazuvano nenyaya dzechivanhu uye vakoma nevanin'ina vane zvikumbiro zvinokwezva murume nemukadzi kuti vave zina.

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