Imba yeKuroora yeIslam muAnti-Mhuri Society

In Sura’tul Al Nahl (Sura 16) muKorani, Mwari (SWT) anodaro, “Uye Allah vakakuitirai mudzimba dzenyu pekugara.”

Imba inomiririra chii kumhuri yeMuslim? Is it a place where family members can relate to one another and where they sincerely enjoy being together; where they have a sense of shared beliefs and values, and their behavior is based on Islamic principles? Inzvimbo here inochengetedzwa nhengo dzemhuri, vanofara uye vane mutsa kune mumwe nemumwe?

Imba haifaniri kungova nzvimbo inodyira vanhu, zorora uvate; zvirokwazvo, imba ndiyo nzvimbo yatinopedzera nguva yedu yakawanda, uye uko mhuri dzinopedza yakawanda yenguva yadzo dziri pamwe chete. Ndiyo nzvimbo iyo varume nemadzimai vanogona kuva vari voga pamwe chete. Naizvozvo, musha inzvimbo umo mhuri dzinofanira kunamatira pamwe chete, and it should be based on Allah’s (SWT) rules and guidance. Izvo zvakataurwa naIbn Abi Aldunia nevamwe (Sahih al-Jaami) kuti, “Kana Allah vachida vanhu vemba, anozivisa unyoro pakati pavo.”

Mubvunzo watitarisana nawo zvino ndewekuti: “Munguva iyo nyika yachinja zvikuru, kubva pakuva mutsigiri wemhuri kuenda kunharaunda inopikisa mhuri, ingani dzimba dzeMuslim dzine hunhu uhwu hwakanaka? Yave nguva yekumira uye kuongororazve mamiriro emhuri yedu kuti tione kuti vakakanganiswa nenharaunda yedu yakakura kusvika papi..

Kunyangwe zvakaoma kuwana ruzivo rwehuwandu hune chekuita nezvehutano hwedzimba dzeMuslim, kwakati wandei kwakasiyana uye kuitika kwemamwe mamiriro munharaunda medu kunoratidza kuti mhuri dzechiMuslim dziri kusanganawo nematambudziko emagariro uye emunhu zvakare..

Funga kuti kwave nekuwedzera kwakakura mukati menharaunda yedu mune zvinotevera: 1) separation and divorce rates; 2) the percentage of families headed by a single parent; 3) teenagers; 4) kusawirirana, kunetsana uye kunetsana pakati pevakaroorana; 5) intergenerational conflict; 6) the rate of depression, kunyanya pakati pevakadzi; 7) domestic violence involving teens.

Zvikonzero Zvinokonzera Matambudziko Aya. Ndezvipi zvikonzero chaizvo zvekuchinja kuri kuitika mumhuri dzeMuslim?

Kare, zvakanga zviri nyore zvikuru kubudirira kurera mhuri nokuti nzanga pachayo yaitsigira nhamburiko dzedu. Vabereki nevana vakanga vakapoteredzwa nemienzaniso yakanaka; zvinobudisa nhau zvakasimbisa tsika dzemhuri, uye masisitimu ekutsigira aivepo kubatsira kuumba mhuri dzakasimba. Zvisinei, mumakore makumi matatu apfuura, zvinhu izvi zvachinja zvikuru, uye kuchinja uku kwakaunza migumisiro yakaipa ine simba pamhuri dzedu.

Nhasi, chinenge chinhu chiri chose chakatipoteredza chinorerekera kudukupisa tsika dzakanaka dzemhuri nemisimboti. Sezvo mhuri dzedu dziri rutivi rwenzanga iri kuwedzera unzenza, vakarwiswa uye vakasvibiswa zvakare - tinoda kana kusada. Kunyange zvazvo tsika dzedu nenheyo zvingave zvakatibatsira kuramba kuchinja uku, sezvinoita vamwe munharaunda yedu, tichiri panjodzi yepesvedzero dzakaipa dzakatipoteredza. Avo vasina kusimba mukuita kwavo kwechiIslam uye vasina huchenjeri uye kutonga vanonyanya kukundwa nehuturu hwepfungwa huri kuitika mazuva ano..

Zvisinei, hatigoni kupomera zvizere nguva nenyika yatigere mairi. Varume nevakadzi, vanaamai nanababa, vanofanira kugamuchira basa rekutsvaga kuchengetedza mhuri dzavo kubva munzanga iyi inoshora mhuri. Kuitika kwezvinetso izvi mumhuri dzechiMuslim dzemarudzi ose nemamiriro ezvinhu kunoratidza kuti matambudziko ari “kunze.”

Apo roorano inoderedzwa kuva chimwe chinhu chinopfuura vanhu vaviri vakaroorana vanogara pamwe chete asi vachiita sokunge kuti havana kuroora, “mudzimu wemhuri” unonyangarika pamusha! Kana vaviri ava vakasarudza kuva ne “I, ini” gwara rehupenyu, pane kuti “isu, isu” maonero, mitezo yemhuri haizoshandi pamwe chete nokuda kwemhuri, kana kuti kunakidzwa nokuva pamwe chete.

Kana vese baba naamai vari kushanda kunze kwedzimba dzavo nekuda kwezvikonzero zvehupfumi uye kuchengetwa uye dzidzo yevana vavo inochinjirwa kune vanochengeta vana nevadzidzisi., vana kazhinji kazhinji vanonyimwa kuwana zvinodikanwa zvavo zvemirangariro uye zvoungwaru zvinozadzikiswa zvakakwana. Kana vabereki vese vasinganzwisise kuti kugara kwemhuri yavo kunofanirwa kuve kwekutanga uye kuti ivo vanofanirwa kuzvipira kuvaka, kudzivirira, uye kusimbisa mhuri yavo, mhuri "chivako" chinowira pasi!

When Muslim families forget the importance in Islam of building a strong foundation for family life; when spouses forget the rights that Allah (SWT) has given their mates over them, rudo rwavo runopera. Pane kudaro, kutsamwa, kusawirirana, uye kukakavara kunotora nzvimbo yako. Kana vanababa nevarume vasingatsauri nguva chaiyo yokuti mhuri dzavo dzikurukure, seka, Wemasimbaose ndiye mukuru; when wives and mothers spend most of their time caring for young children and inside of the kitchen, tranquility and family success “go with the wind.”

When both forget to exercise and utilize the human gifts that Allah (SWT) has bestowed upon them – patience, mutsa, uye kunzwisisa - mhuri yose inobhadhara mutengo mukuru.

Magadzirisirwo Matambudziko Aya. We can return to strong family values and strengthen our homes by spreading the teachings of Islam in regards to family life.

Chekutanga, tinofanira kuramba tiri vapenyu, mumwoyo nomupfungwa dzedu, pfungwa yetariro uye kutenda kuti haisati yanyanya kunonoka kuchinja - kunyange kana tine manzwiro ekuti imba yedu iri kufa uye kuti hapana chinoratidzika kuva chiri kuvandudza. (WA LA YAKNAT MIN RAHMET ALLAH ELA ALKAWM AL KAFEREEN). And at the same time, tinofanira kuyeuka kuti chido chekuvaka mhuri yakasimba hazvina kukwana - vavariro dzakanaka uye pfungwa hazvina kukwana. Tinofanira kukudziridza mafungiro matsva akavakirwa pamisimboti nemaitiro echiIslam.

Tinofanira kushanda nesimba kukudziridza uye kuziva zvipo izvo Allah akatipa izvo zvinozoita kuti tive vamiririri veshanduko mukati memhuri dzedu.. Munhu wose anoziva mamiriro ezvinhu emhuri yake zviri nani kupfuura chero ani zvake, uye hapana anogona kunzwisisa zvinoda kuitwa mukati memhuri dzedu pachedu zviri nani kupfuura zvatinokwanisa.

Wanano inoda kushandira pamwe, kuzvipira uye pfungwa yekutarisira; zvinhu izvi zvinotishongedzera kusarudza uye kushanda pamwechete takanangana ne“isu, isu” kana “pamwe chete” maitiro. We must strive to develop a deeper knowledge of the importance of the family and family values in Islam in order to deal with the powerful forces that surround us.

Tinofanira kutsaura nguva inokosha vhiki yoga yoga yokuti nhengo dzemhuri dzedu dzifare, Wemasimbaose ndiye mukuru, plan, and study Islam together. Varume nemadzimai vanofanira kupedza nguva vari pamwe chete vachikurukura uye vachiedza kuita zvinosetsa. Vanofanira kushandisa kuzvidzora nokuti mumwe wavo paanotsamwa otadza kuzvidzora, migumisiro yacho inogona kukuvadza. Hasha dzedu dzinogona kutipinza mumatambudziko makuru.

Kunyange zvazvo matambudziko achitarisirwa muwanano imwe neimwe, mwoyo murefu neruregerero ndizvo zvipo zvakanakisa zvatingashandisa kugadzirisa zvikanganiso. Tinofanira kuedza kuva nemwoyo murefu, mutsa, kudzikama, uye pamusoro pezvose, kunzwisisa maonero emumwe wedu.

Nzira chete yatinogona kuva nehukama hwemhuri hwakapfuma kuburikidza nekuteerera nekunzwisisa. Chimwe chezvikonzero zvikuru nei tichifanira kutsvaka kunzwisisana ndechokuti zvikanganiso zvedu zvizhinji zvinokonzerwa nokusanzwisisana uye kwete vavariro dzakaipa..

Murume nomudzimai vanofanira kudzivisa kukurukura zvinetso zvavo zvomunhu oga uye nhau dzakavanzika navamwe. Vanofanirawo kukurudzirana mukuteerera kwavo Allah, uye kurera vana vavo maererano netsika dzechiIslam, nokuti hapana mubvunzo kuti mwana anokura asina tsika dzeIslam anotambura kwenguva refu.

Vana vanowana zvikuru pfungwa yavo yechengeteko norunyararo kubva pamabatiro anoita vanababa naamai vavo; saka, chinhu chikuru chatingapa kwavari ndechekuda uye nekuva nemoyo munyoro kune mumwe nemumwe. Nokuvaka michato yakasimba, ndaimbofunga kuti munamato unogona kungoitwa tisati tarara husiku, we will create a powerful effect on the entire Islamic society.

Source Mission Islam

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