Мушкарци не морају да се нагоде пре брака

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Властитој сестри Пуре Матримони-а Арфи Саири придружила се и сестра Фатхима Фарооки, која разбија мит о мушкарцима који одлуче да се не нагоде прије брака. This is one lively talkso tune in now!

Men Don’t Need To Be Settled Before Marriage.

*Играње – Чисти брачни џинглови*

Ассаламу Алаиккум, Као практикант муслиман……, пурематримони.цом јер пракса чини савршеним.

*Discussion Begins*

Арфа: ВЛ! Ассаламу Алаиккум (врб)! And Welcome to Pure Matrimony. Ја сам ваш домаћин секо. Арфа Саира Икбал, head of Pure Matrimony and I’m joined here today with my co-host, Sis. Fathima Farooqi and the topic we are going to be discussing today is Men Don’t Need to Be Well -Settled before Marriage. Quite an interesting topic, тако…(цереће се) I’m quite excited to dig into this one, Are you there, Sis. Фатхима?

Фатхима: да! Ассаламу Алаиккум, Sis. Арфа! Како си?

Арфа: Ва Алаиккум Салаам, Wa rahmatullah, да, I’m doing good. This is quite an interesting topic, isn’t it?

Фатхима: да, Exactly, because we don’t really get to talk about Men very often and especially their financial part because that seems to be very private and secret and hidden, but then, Добро, there are some people who are complete goal diggers and they want men to be more well settled. I think that is more of a control problem, Men all over the world are expected to be well settled with a good job, a great salary, some even prefer, they need to own a house or a car. Is this really what makes a man eligible for marriage?

Арфа: (цереће се) definitely not. Искрено! I think I should say that.

Фатхима: (цереће се) Да! Some Sisters need to hear that!

(Both- Laughing out loudly)

Арфа: Да! мислим. Let’s get that real right. We live in an age where, Maasha Allah, everybody on the planet at the moment who is connected and is you know, Maasha Allah, is reasonably well- educated will have something going for them. Тако, specifically, even now, when you look, especially from the west a lot of sisters are now working, Сада, please don’t confuse what I’m about to say, because at the end of the day, it’s a man’s duty and responsibility to provide for his family. Јел тако! That goes without saying this is how it’s supposed to be, this is the right a woman has for her husband to be able to provide for her. And that’s the key phrase, ‘BE ABLE TO PROVIDE FOR HER’.

(Arfa Continues) У реду, if you are married to a man who, by all intensive purposes, got everything, but doesn’t give you any respect, is that a marriage it’s worth having, no definitely no, јел тако. It is doesn’t define who that man is. У реду. For a man, it’s important that he is able to provide for his family that, озбиљно, we can’t get away from this, јел тако. Тако, if you’ve got a brother who is lazy, you do not want to work, who is basically living off the back of his parents, јел тако, на пример, he is living in his parent’s house and doesn’t have a good job and he doesn’t have any aspiration in life, that’s a problem. You don’t want to marry somebody like that, јел тако?

(Arfa Continues speaking ) For the brothers who are listening to this, you really need to understand this, не, you are not gonna be able to attract the right person just because you happen to live in your parents home and your parents’ has got really massive business, but you, yourself don’t do anything, Јел тако! Тако, And I have seen many sisters, by the way, turned down proposals, because the brother himself, the family has achieved so much but the brother is a nobody. He doesn’t put any effort into anything, right from hishe is not educated, and he is not bothered about getting himself a good work. It is better for you to live in dignity on your own terms than to ride off back of your family.

Јел тако! Because for a woman, Woman wants to see that a man is able to go the distance in wanting to provide for her. For man’s hardworking and he has skills, Инсха Аллах, that’s not a problem. I would always say that to Sister’s right, понекад, sisters get a bit, знаш, they have the silly ideas in their head, знаш, man is gonna come to sweep me off my feethe is gonna provide absolutely everything for meI’m going to get like that.

Не! I know so many people who have started right at the bottom, who have literally, they have had literally, next nothing but, because their husband has been very hard working and they worked together as a team, and they have managed to play an amazing lifestyle for themselves but they have taken many years to get to that point. I think it’s really keen, sisters you are listening to this, if you are looking to get married, you want to marry somebody who is good for you.. don’t look out how much money he has got… Озбиљно, that’s not the right thing to look atYou want to look at anything more than the worldYou want look at his Deen, you want to look at his character…

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