When One's Spouse Commits Adultery

Souirce: Umm Eesa,http://reverts.wordpress.com/category/marriage-and-divorce/

Ko e taha ia ʻo e ngaahi faingataʻa lahi taha ʻe lava ke ne uesia ha nofo-malí. ʻ Oku lavakiʻi ʻ e he husepānití pe ko e uaifí ʻ a Allah pea mo e falala ʻ a hona hoa malí pea kau ʻ i he tonó. ʻOku faʻa lahi ange ia ʻi he ʻikai fakaiku ki he ngataʻanga ʻo e nofo-malí mo hono maumauʻi ʻo e fāmilí. ʻI he ngaahi sosaieti tukufakaholó, ʻOku ngalingali ʻe hoko ʻeni ʻi he taimi kuo tono ai ʻa e fefine.
ʻ Oku tui ʻ a e kakai ʻ e niʻihi ko e tonó ʻ oku fiemaʻu ki ai ʻ a e fakaʻauha ʻ o e nofo malí ko ha fatongia fakalotu. ʻOku ʻikai moʻoni ʻeni. Ko e fili ko ia ke fakamolemolé pea feinga ke fakahaofi e nofo malí ʻoku kei tuʻu pē ia mo e mali ʻe tahá. ʻI he ngaahi meʻa lahi, lava ke fakahaofi ʻa e malí.
Kapau ʻoku tono tangata pe fefine, ʻOku ʻikai ke ne uesia ʻa e lawfulness pe moʻoni ʻo e mali mei ha fakakaukau fakalao faka-ʻIsilami. ʻOku kei hoko pe ʻa e tangata naʻe tono ko e husepaniti fakalao ʻo hono uaifi. ʻOku kei hoko pe ʻa e fefine naʻe tono ko e uaifi fakalao ʻo hono husepaniti. ʻOku ʻikai ko ha tufakanga ia ke nau vete mali.
Ko e fakamoʻoni ki he meʻá ni ko e Palōfitá (ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó) Naʻe ʻikai ke ne fekumi ki he fefine mali naʻe fai ʻe Mâʻiz ʻa e feʻauaki mo. Naʻe ʻikai ke ne fehuʻi ki hono husepaniti pea fekauʻi ia ke vete hono. Ko e meʻa pe naʻa ne lea ʻaki ko: "ʻE Unays, ʻalu ki he uaifi ʻo e tangata ko iá, pea kapau te ne vetehia, pea toki tolomakaʻi ia." [Sahîh Al-Bukhârî (6633) mo Sahîh Mosilemi (1698)].
ʻE lava ke tau ʻilo ko e Palōfitá (ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó) Naʻe ʻikai ke ne fakahinohinoʻi kuo pau ke veteʻi ʻe he husepaniti hono uaifi pe kuo ne taʻefakalao kiate ia.

Ko e fanau ko ia ʻoku faʻeleʻi ʻe ha fefine naʻe tono, ʻoku ʻuhinga ia ki he husepaniti ʻo e fefine ʻo fakatatau ki he fono faka-ʻIsilami. Ko e angatonu mo e hokohoko atu ʻo e fāmilí ʻoku fakatolonga ia ʻi he founga ko ʻení, pea pehe ki he totonu ʻa e tamasiʻi mo hono tuʻunga ʻi he ʻapi ʻo ʻene ongomatuʻa.
ʻOku ʻikai ha ola fakalao ʻo e tonó ʻi he ngaahi meʻa peheé, koeʻuhi ko e meʻa ʻoku taʻefakalao ʻi ʻIsilami fokotuʻu ʻoku lau ia ko e te ne moʻui ki he ngaahi taumuʻa pehee. Ko e fakamoʻoni ki he meʻá ni ko e Palōfitá (ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó) naʻe pehe ʻe: "ʻOku kau ʻa e tamasiʻi ki he (malí) mohenga, pea kuo tolomakaʻi ʻa e tokotaha tono." [Sahîh Al-Bukhârî (2053) mo Sahîh Mosilemi (1457)]
Ko ia ai, ʻOku ʻuhinga ʻa e kiʻi tamasiʻi ki he husepaniti ʻo e fefine. Ka ʻi ai ha paternity ʻoku ne maʻu ʻa e tangata naʻa ne tono, ʻoku ʻikai hano nunuʻa ia ʻi hono siviʻi e paternity ʻa e husepaniti.

ʻE kei lava pē ke hoko ʻa e tokotaha tono ʻoku fakatomalá ko ha husepāniti pe uaifi lelei. Kapau ʻe pehē ʻe ha tangata kuó ne fakatomala fakamātoato koeʻuhí ko ʻene angahalá, ʻe lava ʻe hono uaifi ʻo tauhi ia ko hono husepaniti. Ko e meʻa tatau pē, kapau ʻe pehe ʻe he fefine kuo ne fakatomala koeʻuhi ko ʻene fehalaki, pea ʻoku maʻu leva ʻe hono husepaniti ʻa e totonu kotoa pe ke tauhi ia ko hono uaifi. ʻOku lea ʻa Allah ʻo kau kiate kinautolu ʻoku fakatomalá: "Lea ʻaki: ʻA ʻeku kau tamaioʻeiki ʻa ia kuo nau maumau-fono ki honau laumālié! ʻIkai ko e loto foʻi ʻi he ʻaloʻofa ʻa Allah: he ʻoku fakamolemoleʻi ʻe Allah ʻa e ngaahi angahala kotoa pē: he ʻokú Ne faʻa fakamolemole, ʻAloʻofa Lahi Tahá." [Sûrah Al-Zumar: 53]
ʻOku toe pehe foki ʻe Allah: "Pea ko ia ia ʻoku fakatomala mo fai lelei kuo ne tafoki moʻoni ki Allah ʻi he fakatomala moʻoni." [Sûrah Al-Furqân: 71]
Ko e Palōfitá (ke ʻiate ia ʻa e melinó) naʻe pehe ʻe: "ʻOku tali ʻe Allah ʻa e fakatomala ʻa ʻEne tamaioʻeiki ʻi he ʻikai ke ne aʻu ki he throes ʻo e mate." [Sunan Al-Tirmidhî (3537) mo Sunan Ibn Mâjah (4253)]
Naʻa ne toe pehe foki: "ʻOku mafao atu ʻe Allah hono toʻukupú ʻi he poʻulí kiate kinautolu naʻe fai angahala lolotonga ʻa e ʻahó, pea ʻoku mafao atu Hono toʻukupú ʻi he lolotonga ʻo e ʻahó maʻanautolu naʻe fai angahala lolotonga ʻa e poʻulí." [Sahîh Mosilemi (2759)]
ʻE lava ke tala ʻe he malí pe ʻoku loto moʻoni ʻa e husepāniti pe uaifi tonó ke fakatomala ʻi heʻene tauhi ʻa e ʻulungāanga hili ʻa e fakatomalá. Ko e tokotaha fakatomala moʻoni kuo ne foki ki he talangofua ʻa Allah te ne fakahehema ke fakahaaʻi ha piety lahi ange . ʻOku kau ʻi he ngaahi fakaʻilonga ʻo e meʻá ni ʻa hono tauhi ʻo e lotú mo e ʻaukaí, teunga tāú, kau ʻi he lotu loto-fiefoakí, mo ʻene ongoʻi loto mamahi koeʻuhi ko e fehalaaki. Ko e niʻihi ʻeni ʻo e ngaahi fakaʻilonga kuo fakatomala moʻoni ʻa e tokotahá ki he ʻEikí.
ʻIkai ngata ai, ʻoku tauʻatāina ʻa e husepānití mo e uaifí ke na feohi fafale hili ʻena ʻiloʻi kuo tono ʻa e mali ʻe tahá. ʻOku ʻikai ha angahala ʻi he meʻá ni, pea ʻikai ha taimi tatali ʻi he taimi ʻoku hoko ai ʻa e tono ko e fefine. Ko e ʻuhinga ʻo e meʻa ni he ko e pule kuo ʻosi fakapolokalamaʻi ʻi he fono faka-ʻIsilami he ʻoku fakalao ʻa e uaifi mo e husepaniti. ʻOku pehe ʻe Allah: "ʻOku hoko homou uaifí ko ha meʻaʻofa kiate kimoutolu, ko ia ke ke ʻalu ki hoʻo tilth ʻo hange ko ho loto." [Sûrah Al-Baqarah: 223]
Neongo ia, kapau ʻoku vilitaki ha taha ʻi he tonó, fakaʻaliʻali ha ʻulungāanga taʻeʻofa, pea ʻoku ʻikai fakatomala; pea ʻoku ʻikai totonu leva ke tauhi ʻa e tokotaha ko iá ko ha hoa mali. ʻOku pehe ʻe Allah: "ʻE ʻikai mali ʻa e tokotaha tono ka ko e tono fefine pe ko ha tauhi tamapua, pea ʻe ʻikai mali ha taha mo e kau tono ka ko e tokotaha tono pe tauhi tamapua. Ko e meʻa kotoa pē ʻoku tapui ʻe he kakai tuí." [Sûrah Al-Nûr: 3]
Pea ʻoku ʻiloʻi lelei taha ʻe Allah.

Souirce: Umm Eesa,http://reverts.wordpress.com/category/marriage-and-divorce/