Автор: Чисте подружжя
We’ll be talking to brother Muhammed Mustafa who spent 10 years searching for the one before joining Pure Matrimony. After just 7 днів, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!
This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!
*Граючи – Pure Matrimony Intro*
Ассаламу алейкум, As a practicing Muslim, Я розумію ваші занепокоєння щодо спроби знайти благочестиву дружину в Інтернеті, і, відверто кажучи, мене це не здивувало, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, це як спроба знайти голку в поспіху….
Арфа: Ассаламу алейкум (wrb) and Welcome to the family matters show. Я ваш господар, сестро. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, Мааша Аллах, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Субаханаллах. Тому, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. Тому, без подальшого робити, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, Тому, Br.Mustafa, Як ти? Ассаламу алейкум!
бр. Mustafa: Ва Алейкум Салам(wrb). Альхамдуліллах, I’m doing great! Як ти?
Арфа: Excellent! Really good to hear from you, Брат. Тому, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. ти знаєш, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.
бр. Mustafa: Правильно! Що робити, якщо у сестри немає валі, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.
Арфа:Гаразд, Мааша Аллах!
бр. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, що, you would call it an e-commerce company, I think, that will be the best word.
Арфа: о, Гаразд, Excellent!
бр. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (сестра. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.
Арфа: Oh.. Excellent.. Мааша Аллах! You speak fluent Arabic then?
бр. Mustafa: Альхамдуліллах!
Арфа: Very lucky, Мааша Аллах! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, Мааша Аллах, Тому, you know talking about your, в основному, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.
бр. Mustafa: Що робити, якщо у сестри немає валі! Насправді, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, але, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% зусилля, like I was really searching.
Арфа: Subhaanallah! Ого! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, Мааша Аллах. І, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?
бр. Mustafa: Правильно, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, але, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( сестра. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.
Арфа: Not the right profiles in UAE?
бр. Mustafa: так. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, ти знаєш, to get married.
Арфа: Добре. так. Оскільки, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, але, ти знаєш, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.
бр. Mustafa:That’s right!
Арфа: Правильно! Добре. Excellent! Тому, you know what happened after that then?
бр. Mustafa: Що робити, якщо у сестри немає валі, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.
Арфа: о. Мааша Аллах! Last Year?
бр. Mustafa: так! Так, last year (сестра. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.
Арфа: так. Мааша Аллах. так. We are very clear on that.
бр. Mustafa: точно. Тому, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, це халяль. This is what it is.
Арфа: Альхамдуліллах! Альхамдуліллах!
бр. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.
Арфа: Добре. Так. Мааша Аллах (chuckles)
бр. Mustafa: Подібно до, I had to pay literally nothing at all. Тому, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, I mean, it is I don’t know how people would take this…like, the first question people would ask like……..
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МашаАллах!!! it’s really inspirational for being patient….
Subhana ‘Allah Daz Masha’ALLAH
Masha’ALLAH
May Almighty Allah bless them….
Masha Allah beautiful story, May Allah bless their marriage and thank you purematremony for everything!
Маша Аллах, inspirational story. May Allah bless him and his wife and grant them happiness in this life and the other.
Маша Аллах, very inspiring story…may Allah bless them and thanks for getting this lesson …
good to so