Umzekeliso Wamaqabane Nempahla

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Bismillah
uThixo (USomandla) isebenzisa imizekeliso emangalisayo kwiKur’an ebetha uloyiko, uloyiko nokumangala ezintliziyweni zamakholwa. Kuyo yonke iKur’an, uThixo (USomandla) uzoba imizekeliso ukuze sidlulise ukubaluleka kwezihloko ezithile, ukuze sifumane izifundo kuzo kwaye ukuze sicamngce kwaye sicamngce ngazo. Siva amaxesha amaninzi ngemizekelo yabahanahanisi, i-mushrikeen (abahedeni) kunye namakholwa. Kodwa kukho umzekeliso omnye ka-Allh (USomandla) ekhulisa uthando nenceba phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, kwaye lo mzekeliso ngowona ucikoza kakhulu kwaye unomtsalane kwiKur’an.

uThixo (USomandla) ichaza ubudlelwane bomtshato kwiSurah Al-Baqarah, xa Esitsho:

Ziimpahla kuni, nani nizinxibo zazo
Uguqulo: Ziingubo zenu, nina niziingubo zabo. [Surah Baqarah, uhlobo lokuqala sele lumisiwe kwaye lubhalwe kwi-Umm al-kitaab 187]

Subhan Allah, uThixo (USomandla) uthelekisa ulwalamano lwendoda nomfazi njengesinxibo. uThixo (USomandla) uthi bobabini indoda nomfazi “bangama-liba”, iimpahla, omnye komnye. Oku kubonisa ukulingana okubekwa ngu-Allah phakathi kwamaqabane kunye nendlela iqabane ngalinye linendima ngayo kubudlelwane.

Khumbula kwakhona ukuba uAllah (USomandla) ubeka imizekeliso kwiKur’an ukuze sicamngce, ngoko ke makhe sicinge ngendlela iqabane lomtshato lithelekisa ngayo nempahla:

• Iimpahla zikufuphi kuwe, emva kwempahla yakho ulusu lwakho. Iqabane lisondele kuwe ngolo hlobo, ngokweemvakalelo nangokwasemzimbeni.
• Impahla ikhusela ulusu lwakho ngaphandle. Umyeni ngumondli wenkosikazi yakhe kwaye inkosikazi ikhusela ikhaya kunye nempahla yomyeni wakhe.
• Iimpahla ziyakuhombisa. Indoda nomfazi bayancomana, kobu bomi nakobulandelayo.
• Iimpahla zikhululekile. Xa omnye ekufutshane neqabane lakhe, Baziva bekhululekile, yaye iintliziyo zabo ziphumle. Umntu unokukhululeka ekunye neqabane lakhe aze athuthuzeleke kuwo nakumazwi awo xa esebunzimeni.
• Iimpahla ziyakufihla kwaye zikukhusele. Indoda nomfazi abafanele bathethe ngeempazamo zomnye ngaphandle okanye bakhalazele abanye ngamaqabane abo.

Subhan Allah, inene iNkosi yethu nguAr-Rahuwf (Unobubele kakhulu) ngokubeka le nzolo phakathi kwabatshatileyo. Njengoko u-Ibn Kathir esitsho kwi-tafseer yakhe yeGumbi leSurah: Ukuba uAllâh wayeyenze yonke inzala ka-Adam yaba yindoda, wadala iimazi kolunye uhlobo, ezifana namaJinn okanye izilwanyana, bekungasoze kubekho imvisiswano phakathi kwabo namaqabane abo. Bekuya kubakho ukucaphuka ukuba amaqabane ebesuka kolunye uhlobo. Ngenceba egqibeleleyo ka-Allh Wenza abafazi babo ngokohlobo lwabo, wadala uthando nenceba phakathi kwabo. Kaloku indoda ihlala nomfazi kuba imthanda, okanye ngenxa yokuba unovelwano ngakuye ukuba banomntwana kunye, okanye kuba efuna ukuba amnyamekele, kwaye nangokunjalo.

Abaninzi banokuziva beneentloni ukuba le ndinyana ikhankanywe kwi-Qur'an, kodwa uSomandla, lo ngomnye umzekelo omhle obonisa ukuba i-deen yethu iphelele kwaye u-Allah usinike isikhokelo ngeNcwadi yaKhe kuyo yonke inkalo yobomi bethu., kwaye ngenxa yoku kufuneka sibe nombulelo alhamdulillah.

Lo mzekeliso phakathi kweqabane nempahla ngomnye wemizekeliso emininzi kwiKur’an ekufuneka sicamngce ngayo kwaye sicamngce ngayo., kwaye oku kuphuma kuBulumko obuPheleleyo neNceba ka-Allh (USomandla) ukuba Usicacisele iivesi zaKhe kunye nemiqondiso ngendlela eyiyeyona ifaneleke kakhulu ingqondo yethu.

Wa lillahil hamd.

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