Amalungelo kunye noxanduva loMfazi

Amalungelo kunye noxanduva lwabasetyhini njengabafazi kwi-Islam maninzi, kwaye ukuba ilandelwa ngokufanelekileyo Insha'Allah, zinceda ukuphepha ukungquzulana ekhaya. Inkosikazi inamalungelo amaninzi, ezinye zazo zikhankanywe ngezantsi:

1) Ukuphathwa ngobubele:

U-Allah uSomandla uthi, "... kwaye uhambe nabo ngobubele." (An-Nisa': 19)

2) Ukujongwa, ibonelelwa kwaye igcinwe ngembeko nesidima:

UMprofeti (uxolo neentsikelelo zika-Allh zibe phezu kwakhe) watsho kwikhutbah yakhe ngexesha loHambo lokuvalelisa: “Yabo (Abafazi) ngamalungelo phezu kwenu okuba nibabonelele, nibanxibe ngokundilisekileyo.”

Amadoda kufuneka agcine abasetyhini bawo ngokuhambelana neendlela zabo kwaye babonelele abasetyhini nge:

• Ukutya
• Ikhusi
• Impahla
• Ukhathalelo jikelele

UAllâh uSomandla akabuthandi ubugqwirha nobugqwirha, ngoko abafazi bafanele bacinge ngezinto abanazo abayeni babo baze bangaceli izinto ezingaphezu kweemfuno zabo, kananjalo abafanele bavinjwe izinto ngobugqwetha.

Ukugcina Umfazi Ngembeko Nesidima Iindlela:

• Ukuphathwa ngobubele nangobulungisa
• Ukumhlonipha nokungamthobi okanye ukumthoba ngokucela amalungelo akhe
• Ungaze umenzakalisa emzimbeni, ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo
• Ukunika umfazi ilungelo lokuqhawula umtshato ukuba indoda ayimthandi

3) Iimfanelo zoMfazi zibandakanya:

• Ukungavumeli abantu ukuba bangene ekhayeni nto leyo engafunwa ngumyeni
• Ukunyamekela izinto zomyeni wakhe kunye nekhaya lakhe lomtshato
• Akalibambi ilungelo lokuba nabantwana kuye
• Ukuze azihombise ngenxa yomyeni wakhe aze anikele ingqalelo epheleleyo kuye xa eyicela
• Ukuba nentlonelo ngalo lonke ixesha endodeni yakhe nokungamcel’ umngeni okanye ukungathobeli

Abasetyhini baziwa njengentliziyo yekhaya, kwaye kufuneka iphathwe ngolo hlobo. Umfazi olungileyo uya kuqinisekisa ukuba uyahlangabezana nokulindela komyeni wakhe kwaye amkhathalele ukuze u-Insha’Allah abuyisele uthando nenceba kuye.. Ngokufanayo, indoda elungileyo iya kuqinisekisa ukuba iyawazalisekisa amalungelo omfazi wayo ngaphandle kokumbangela naluphi na uhlobo lokungekho sikweni okanye ukwenzakalisa ngokweemvakalelo.

Ekugqibeleni, khumbula ukuba uAllah uSomandla wenze umyeni wakho abe nguAmeer wekhaya, ke yibeke oku kwaye unyaniseke kuxanduva lwakho ngomonde kunye nokunyaniseka kwaye Insha'Allah uya kuvuzwa amaxesha amaninzi ngu-Allah..

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