Aṣẹ Lati Ṣe Igbeyawo

The order to Marry

Hadith – Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Iwe 62, Nigbana ni ẹsẹ ti han ti o sọ. 1, Narrated Anas bin Malik

A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him asking how the Prophet worshipped (Olorun), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, “Where are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have been forgiven.” Then one of them said, “I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever.” The other said, “I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast.” The third said, “I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever.” Allah’s Apostle came to them and said, “Are you the same people who said so-and-so? Nipa Olohun, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers).”

Hadith – lati ṣe idajọ laarin wa, Iwọn didun 7, Iwe 62, Nọmba 4, Narrated ‘Abdullah

We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah’s Apostle said, “Eyin odo! Ẹnikẹni ninu nyin ti o le fẹ, yẹ ki o fẹ, nítorí pé ó ń ràn án lọ́wọ́ láti rẹ ojú rẹ̀ sílẹ̀, ó sì ń ṣọ́ ìmẹ̀tọ́mọ̀wà rẹ̀ (ie. awọn ẹya ikọkọ rẹ lati ṣiṣe ibalopọ ti ko tọ ati bẹbẹ lọ.), ati enikeni ti ko le gbeyawo, yẹ ki o yara, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.”

Saying of Salaf – Sufyan ibn ‘Uyaynah

Sufyân ibn ‘Uyaynah (rahimahullâh) sọ, “The most nimble of creatures still have need of a voice. The cleverest women still need to have a husband, and the cleverest man still needs to consult wise men.”

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