作者: 純婚姻
We’ll be talking to brother Muhammed Mustafa who spent 10 years searching for the one before joining Pure Matrimony. After just 7 日, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 months later – alhamdulilah!
This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!
*玩 – Pure Matrimony Intro*
Assalamu Alaikkum, As a practicing Muslim, 我理解你對試圖喺網上搵到一個虔誠嘅配偶嘅擔憂,坦率地說,我並不感到驚訝, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, is like trying to find a needle in a haste tag….
阿爾法: Assalamu Alaikkum (斷續器) and Welcome to the family matters show. 我係你嘅主人家姐. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, Maasha Allah, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. 所以, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. 所以, without further do, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, 所以, Br.Mustafa, 你好嗎? Assalamu Alaikkum!
溴. Mustafa: Wa Alaikkum Salaam(斷續器). 阿尔罕杜利拉, I’m doing great! 你好嗎?
阿爾法: Excellent! Really good to hear from you, 哥哥. 所以, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. you know, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.
溴. Mustafa: 右! 井, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.
阿爾法:好, Maasha Allah!
溴. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, 咩話, you would call it an e-commerce company, 我認為, that will be the best word.
阿爾法: 哦, 好, Excellent!
溴. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (Sis. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.
阿爾法: Oh.. Excellent.. Maasha Allah! You speak fluent Arabic then?
溴. Mustafa: 阿尔罕杜利拉!
阿爾法: Very lucky, Maasha Allah! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, Maasha Allah, 所以, you know talking about your, basically, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.
溴. Mustafa: 井! 講真, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, 但, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% effort, like I was really searching.
阿爾法: Subhaanallah! 哇! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, Maasha Allah. 和, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?
溴. Mustafa: 右, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, 但, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( Sis. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.
阿爾法: Not the right profiles in UAE?
溴. Mustafa: 係. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, you know, to get married.
阿爾法: 仲可以. 係. 因為, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, 但, you know, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.
溴. Mustafa:That’s right!
阿爾法: 右! 仲可以. Excellent! 所以, you know what happened after that then?
溴. Mustafa: 井, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.
阿爾法: 哦. Maasha Allah! Last Year?
溴. Mustafa: 係! 係, last year (Sis. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.
阿爾法: 係. Maasha Allah. 係. We are very clear on that.
溴. Mustafa: Exactly. 所以, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, its halal. This is what it is.
阿爾法: 阿尔罕杜利拉! 阿尔罕杜利拉!
溴. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.
阿爾法: 仲可以. 係. Maasha Allah (笑)
溴. Mustafa: 中意, I had to pay literally nothing at all. 所以, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, 我嘅意思係, it is I don’t know how people would take this…like, the first question people would ask like……..
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係 純婚姻, 我哋提供幫助 50 人們每周結婚!
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馬沙阿拉!!! it’s really inspirational for being patient….
Subhana ‘Allah Daz Masha’ALLAH
Masha’ALLAH
May Almighty Allah bless them….
Masha Allah beautiful story, May Allah bless their marriage and thank you purematremony for everything!
瑪莎安拉, inspirational story. May Allah bless him and his wife and grant them happiness in this life and the other.
瑪莎安拉, very inspiring story…may Allah bless them and thanks for getting this lesson …
good to so