10 多年的等待, 塔瓦库尔的测试 & 找到一个只是 7 天!

我们将与穆斯塔法兄弟交谈，他花了 10 在加入 Pure Matrimony 之前寻找那一年. 刚刚之后 7 天, br Mustafa found his perfect match and got married 2 几个月后 – 真主阿拉!

This is a fantastic interview which teaches you a LOT about tawakkul, sabr and what happens when you do things with pure intentions!

*播放 – Pure Matrimony Intro*

阿萨拉姆·阿莱库姆, As a practicing Muslim, 我理解你对试图在网上找到一个虔诚的配偶的担忧，坦率地说，我并不感到惊讶, because trying to find a practicing single Muslim on other halal Matrimonial website, 就像试图在匆忙标签中找到一根针….

阿尔法: 阿萨拉姆·阿莱库姆 (wrb) and Welcome to the family matters show. 我是你的主人姐姐. Arfa Saira Iqbal from Pure Matrimony and in today’s show, we are going to be interviewing Br. Muhammed Mustafa and Br. Muhammed Mustafa as he got married on Pure Matrimony, Alhamdulillah and you know, 玛莎阿拉, he is actually married to a Sister called Jannathul Firdous which is just the most amazing name, Subahanallah. 所以, I’m really interested and really excited to talk to the brother about his experiences with Pure Matrimony and how he has found the service and all about his, basically his story of how he found the one insha Allah. 所以, 无需进一步做, I’m gonna introduce you to Br. Mustafa, 所以, Br.Mustafa, 你好吗? 阿萨拉姆·阿莱库姆!

溴. Mustafa: 瓦阿莱库姆萨拉姆(wrb). WL, I’m doing great! 你好吗?

阿尔法: 出色的! Really good to hear from you, 兄弟. 所以, I guess the best place to start is right from, you know right from the beginning and not just the.. 你知道, please tell us a little bit about yourself , your background obviously you age, your profession etc.

溴. Mustafa: 对! 好, as you already told them, that my name is Muhammed Mustafa. I originate from Bangladesh, it’s like my parents are from Bangladesh but I was born and raised in the United Arab Emirates.

阿尔法:好的, 玛莎阿拉!

溴. Mustafa: And I currently work in a, what, you would call it an e-commerce company, 我认为, that will be the best word.

阿尔法: 哦, 好的, 出色的!

溴. Mustafa: I work as a Graphics Designer. (姐姐. Arfa comments Maasha Allah at the background) I’ve recently come to Bangladesh actually I lived my whole life in the United Emirates. But I’ve recently moved here.

阿尔法: Oh.. Excellent.. 玛莎阿拉! You speak fluent Arabic then?

溴. Mustafa: WL!

阿尔法: Very lucky, 玛莎阿拉! That’s one thing that I’d aspire to Insha Allah, for one day, 玛莎阿拉, 所以, you know talking about your, 基本上, your search, so how long had you been searching for a partner prior to joining Pure Matrimony.

溴. Mustafa: 好! 实际上, on and off I’ve been searching for over a decade, 但, in the last four years were very, you could say, intense like I was really very serious and into it. With my 100% 努力, like I was really searching.

阿尔法: Subhaanallah! 哇! 10years is a very long time. Like seriously a long time, 玛莎阿拉. 和, how was it and I mean, what was the different things that you tried what sort of try and you know what worked and what didn’t work? Ahem.. you know what was the experience?

溴. Mustafa: 对, actually I tried a couple of websites online. And basically, they are all the same I mean, the same Matrimonial services, they offer the same thing but I don’t know why is that, 但, I mean if you go to these websites which I am not going to mention…( 姐姐. Arfa Says yeah at the background) There were not many profiles to look at, it’s like an empty place.

阿尔法: Not the right profiles in UAE?

溴. Mustafa: 是的. If you read the profile, you will know that this person is actually not serious, may be they are not here with the intention to, 你知道, to get married.

阿尔法: 好的. 是的. 我还没有祈祷过istikhara, You know that’s really important because you know people join these kind of sites all the time, 但, 你知道, a lot of them is because they are not serious, you know kind of looking to mess around.

溴. Mustafa:这是正确的!

阿尔法: 对! 好的. 出色的! 所以, you know what happened after that then?

溴. Mustafa: 好, I ran searched on Google and somehow, but let me go back to the beginning, how I struggles and how I got Pure Matrimony. It was in Ramadan.

阿尔法: 哦. 玛莎阿拉! Last Year?

溴. Mustafa: 是的! 是的, 去年 (姐姐. Arfa says Alhamdulillah at the background). And the thing was, it was a bit before Ramadan, I was searching for a matrimonial website and Google just helped me out and learned it all in Purematrimony.com and I have browsed the site a little bit to get a slight idea how does it work and everything and the first thing I noticed is, they were following the Sharia’h law.

阿尔法: 是的. 玛莎阿拉. 是的. We are very clear on that.

溴. Mustafa: 确切地. 所以, this is the thing that really pulled me in, like ok, these people, really serious and are following the Sharia’h law. And I mean, I was happy, I was happy like finally I found something that is more reliable, 它的清真食品. This is what it is.

阿尔法: WL! WL!

溴. Mustafa: And..Yeah. Right after I registered and I was done with the writing my profile and everything, because it was Ramadan I got a month free usage.

阿尔法: 好的. 是的. 玛莎阿拉 (轻笑)

溴. Mustafa: 喜欢, I had to pay literally nothing at all. 所以, I really happy about them, Subhaanallah, 我是说, it is I don’t know how people would take this…喜欢, the first question people would ask like……..

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