Ngu Umshado Omsulwa - February, 2nd 2018
Kwesinye isikhathi kubonakala sengathi kuthatha unomphela ukuthola umuntu olungile…
Kodwa empeleni kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani?
Kade sivotela umphakathi wethu futhi sihlanganisa izinombolo futhi sakuthola lokho i t kuthatha ngokwesilinganiso phakathi 2-5 iminyaka yokuthola umuntu ofanele!
Empeleni, iningi labantu abaqala ukufuna umlingani womshado ku-inthanethi benza kanjalo benethemba elikhulu lokuthola umuntu ngokushesha…
Bacabanga ukuthi kuphela izinyanga ezimbalwa…
Kodwa uma kungenzeki ngokushesha njengoba bebethemba ukuthi kuzokwenzeka, baphelelwa isineke futhi basheshe bayeke.
Futhi lesi esinye sezizathu ezenza abantu bangatholi impumelelo ku-inthanethi.
Ngo Umshado Omsulwa , sikholelwa ukuthi ukuthola umuntu olungile kuwufanele ukulinda!
Kuyisinqumo esisodwa esibaluleke kakhulu empilweni yakho, and therefore it means taking your time to find the right person .
This will inevitably mean you WILL experience setbacks and rejection at some point .
Kuyingxenye yenqubo!
Kodwa, njenganoma yini ekufanele ube nayo empilweni, kufanele uzimisele ukuzibeka lapho, ukuthatha ithuba lokuthola injabulo…
Uma uzizwa ufuna ukuyeka ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa ngoba ucabanga ukuthi umuntu ofanele akasoze atholakala, khona-ke leli yizwi lakho elingaphakathi elisebenza ngokumelene nawe, because Shaytaan doesn’t WANT you to find anyone .
UFUNA udabuke, enesizungu futhi ekhathazekile.
Ngakho yini okufanele uyenze?
Ngempela, bangu 3 izinto ezibalulekile okufanele uzazi:
Okokuqala, ukubekezela, making dua and placing your trust in Allah is a HUGE step forward in helping you overcome any feelings of stress or worry you may have because you’re leaving it in Allah’s hands .
Okwesibili, umlingani wakho usenqunyelwe wena – Ngamanye amazwi, kungcono qadr lapho uzohlangana nomuntu.
Futhi okokugcina, ngenxa yokuthi uyishiyele ku-Allah akusho ukuthi uhlala lapho futhi wethemba ukuthi kukhona ozofika.
You have to be ACTIVE in searching .
Okujabulisayo ukuthi uma abantu besesha ungaxhunyiwe ku-inthanethi, bavame ukucinga iminyaka ngaphambi kokuba banqume ukuthi akwenzeki.
Nokho, uma kuziwa ekusesheni ku-inthanethi, izinga elifanayo lesenzo alivamile ukusetshenziswa.
Abantu abaningi banikeza izinyanga ezimbalwa, futhi uma kungenzeki lutho, bakhohlwe yonke inqubo futhi bayeke ukusesha ku-inthanethi ngokuphelele.
Iqiniso liwukuthi, uma uyeka ukusesha, kukushiyaphi lokho?
Remember going online using services like Umshado Omsulwa is simply a means of helping you to connect with more of the RIGHT kind of people …
Futhi ngesikhathi esilandelayo lapho uzizwa ufuna ukuyeka ukusesha kwakho ku-inthanethi, khumbula kungathatha noma yini phakathi 2-5 iminyaka ukuthola 'eyodwa'.
Ngakho-ke ungalilahli ithemba uma kungenzeki kuwe okwamanje – awukakaseshe isikhathi eside ngokwanele!
Umm Jamal
Umshado Omsulwa – Ukusiza AmaSulumane Azijwayeza Ukuhlangana Futhi Ahlale Ndawonye
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