Umyalelo Wokushada

The order to Marry

Hadith – Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Bhukha 62, Cha. 1, Narrated Anas bin Malik

A group of three men came to the houses of the wives of the Prophet May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him asking how the Prophet worshipped (UNkulunkulu), and when they were informed about that, they considered their worship insufficient and said, “Where are we from the Prophet as his past and future sins have been forgiven.” Then one of them said, “I will offer the prayer throughout the night forever.” The other said, “I will fast throughout the year and will not break my fast.” The third said, “I will keep away from the women and will not marry forever.” Allah’s Apostle came to them and said, “Are you the same people who said so-and-so? NgoAllah, I am more submissive to Allah and more afraid of Him than you; yet I fast and break my fast, I do sleep and I also marry women. So he who does not follow my tradition in religion, is not from me (not one of my followers).”

Hadith – Sahih Bukhari, Akekho u-Adam noSteve kulokhu 7, Bhukha 62, Inombolo 4, Awulahlekelwanga lutho

We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatever. So Allah’s Apostle said, “O bantu abasha! Noma ubani phakathi kwenu ongashada, kufanele ashade, ngoba kumsiza ehlise amehlo futhi aqaphe isizotha sakhe (i.e. izitho zakhe zangasese ekwenzeni ucansi olungekho emthethweni njll.), lalowo ongelakuthatha, kufanele bazile ukudla, as fasting diminishes his sexual power.”

Saying of Salaf – Sufyan ibn ‘Uyaynah

Sufyân ibn ‘Uyaynah (rahimahullâh) kusho, “The most nimble of creatures still have need of a voice. The cleverest women still need to have a husband, and the cleverest man still needs to consult wise men.”

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